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Send us a text Season 5, Episode 615: Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey of Sexual Exploration After 60. Listen to Greg's personal story! Topics include personal stories of: Finding Love and Sexual Liberation After 60 Discover how one man's unexpected connection with a younger partner revolutionized his understanding of intimacy and sexuality in his golden years. Greg's story challenges conventional wisdom about age and desire, proving it's never too late for transformative relationships. Through candid conversations, Greg shares his journey from a sexually restrictive marriage to embracing open communication and exploration with a new partner. His experience highlights the profound impact of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries, demonstrating how breaking free from societal constraints can lead to unprecedented personal growth. Key highlights: - Transitioning from a closed-off marriage to an open, communicative relationship - Exploring new dimensions of intimacy with a younger partner - Breaking age-related stereotypes about sexuality - The importance of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries - Finding hope and renewal in later-life relationships This powerful episode offers inspiration and practical insights for anyone questioning their sexual future, regardless of age. Listen now to discover how embracing vulnerability and openness can lead to extraordinary connections at any stage of life. 🎧 Tune in to hear Greg's full story and learn why it's never too late to rewrite your relationship narrative. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sexuality After 60: A Personal Journey 00:03:46 - Importance of Open Sexual Communication 00:06:11 - Challenges in Marital Communication 00:08:55 - Exploring New Sexual Experiences 00:10:22 - Exploring Sex Toys Together 00:14:14 - Preparing for Future Relationships 00:17:15 - Discovering Female Sensuality 00:19:00 - Exploring Sensuality and Intimacy 00:22:02 - Overcoming Shame in Relationships 00:25:58 - Exploring Female Sexuality and Orgasms 00:28:40 - Exploring Sexual Boundaries and Preferences 00:30:47 - Exploring New Experiences Together 00:32:23 - Open Communication in Relationships 00:34:20 - Unexpected Honey Experience 00:35:59 - Importance of Communication in Relationships Summary: Cleanvoice Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 613: An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Hunger at Bay, A Cheating Story, Her Refuge, written and narrated by podcast host, author, and narrator Ruan Willow. When Seeing Her Lover is a Refuge to Feeling Alive Again. Erotica fiction where Dana is a lonely woman who is withering away with a thirst for way more than her husband is willing to give her, and when he doesn't even bother to remotely give her what she needs, nor what she deserves, she finds someone who will. Enter Chef George. He makes her feel alive, helps her explore her sexuality, and not only accepts, but glorifies the sexy sexual being that she is. How could something that feels this right be wrong? The answer is...it can't be. Enjoy this story of about complicated taboo relationships, sexuality, seeking one's needs, the search for feeling alive again, and the forbidden love of a secret lover. Entertainment arts can come in the form of an erotic romance short story, providing tales that stretch our minds, help us process life, and give us different perspectives to consider, all through the art of storytelling. This can greatly impact our lives. Takeaways to ponder: Does this story trigger you? Why? Why not? Do you identify with any of the characters? Why do people cheat? Would you ever decide on trying ethical nonmonogamy in your relationship? Life is messy, complicated, and convoluted, but ignoring your sexuality surely ends in disaster, low quality of life, and unfulfillment. Don't ignore your sexuality/sexual health/sexual wellness, or that of your partner, that's one of the keys to a successful relationship and a happier life. Ruan's upcoming release: A Why Choose Dark Romance Novel Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with 8 Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakstrandedcabineightmen Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 612: MMMMMF Excerpt and Embracing Diversity in Fiction: The Healing Power of Sex-Positive Storytelling with Author Emily S. Hurricane. Excerpt from "Choke Hold" written by Emily S. Hurricane, narrated by Ruan Willow. Guest Bio: Emily is an east-coast Canadian thirtysomething mom of two gremlins. Her lumbersexual husband doesn’t actually work in lumber anymore, but he still wears the plaid and the beard. As well as authoring, she’s a freelance editor and ghostwriter. Her books range in genre from Romance and Erotica to Horror and Science Fiction, and everything in between.When she’s not writing and/or momming, she’s sipping espresso, crocheting, and listening to audiobooks. You can find Emily and her collected works at emilyshurricane.com Image painted by Clayton Chandler Links: Website: www.emilyshurricane.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/eshurricane Erotica Substack: hurricaneafterdark.substack.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/eshurricane Facebook: www.facebook.com/EmilySHurricane X: www.x.com/eshurricane Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@eshurricane Summary: Dive into the world of genre-bending storytelling with Canadian author Emily, who fearlessly explores everything from romance to horror, with a special focus on the transformative power of erotic fiction. Emily opens up about her journey from fan fiction to becoming a multi-genre author, sharing how her diverse reading tastes influence her writing. She candidly discusses navigating the challenges of content censorship while maintaining artistic integrity in the evolving landscape of indie publishing. The conversation delves into the importance of sex-positive storytelling and the healing potential of erotic literature. Emily's refreshing perspective on writing across genres, coupled with her experiences on various publishing platforms, offers valuable insights for both readers and aspiring authors. Highlighting the significance of consent and inclusivity in her work, Emily demonstrates how modern erotica can empower readers while breaking down traditional barriers in publishing. Key Takeaways: • Embracing diverse storytelling, including erotica, smut, spicy short fiction, can serve as a powerful tool for healing and personal empowerment. • Censorship in traditional publishing is pushing authors to seek creative freedom through platforms like Patreon. • Inclusivity and open discussions about consent and relationships are essential components in writing and sharing sex-positive narratives. Don't yuck another's yum! Shownotes made with the assistance of Cleanvoice ai Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Pulling this hot little narrative scene from the exclusive level to the main podcast so all can enjoy it! Erotic audio, erotic storytelling with a power play role play scenario. Let's get hot with erotic romance! Let's go! My Daddy Dom dominates me in the morning. It's a tale of dominance and submission which leads to mind-blowing pleasure for us both. Take the ride with us and ride the journey to high climaxing and deliciousness of moaning pleasure sounds. "Helluva way to start the day." Find more of Ruan's work in the form of erotic books and erotic NSFW audiobooks. Ruan narrates her books and that of other erotic authors. See all the available books here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Enjoy! I take requests at ruanwillow@gmail.com for topics/stories for this exclusive level of the podcast. Send me your request today and I'll do it! Have a super sexy day...don't forget to come today! Love ya, Ruan Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it! Use your body to make natural feel good hormones through climaxing. It's important for your relationship to yourself and those you share your intimate life with to do so. Consider this your 'permission' to indulge in self care... that is if you need permission.. ;) Marinate in your sexuality today and every day! It's so healthy for you! This is a sex-positive podcast because sex IS positive! Consent is sexy! Caring for yourself is positive and sexy. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/s FREE erotica and erotic romance stories today through 5/21/25 https://storyoriginapp.com/to/swdynfr Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 609: Behind the Mic: Navigating the World of Erotica and Romance Audiobook Narration with Jeremy Bartelt. The art of seduction and storytelling are essential to erotic audio. Guest Bio: Jeremy Bartelt is a Sioux City, Iowa based audio engineer, music/audiobook producer, voice artist, sound designer, and composer. He brings a lifetime of classical music study (bass trombone, piano, voice) to his over 25 years of audio engineering and teaching. Learn more: http://2219sound.com/ Summary: Join Ruan Willow as she dives deep into the world of audiobooks with special guest Jeremy Bartelt, an accomplished narrator and producer of romance and erotica. Jeremy shares his unique journey from music studios to the realm of audiobooks, revealing the challenges and triumphs of narrating steamy scenes and managing the intricacies of sound production. Discover how he navigates the solitary life of an audiobook narrator, the art of character voice development, and the fascinating dynamics of working with authors to bring their stories to life. From the technical aspects to the creative process behind narrating intimate scenes, Jeremy opens up about the realities of his craft. He also discusses the importance of understanding the author's vision and the nuances of writing for audiobooks, making this episode a must-listen for aspiring narrators and writers alike. Get ready for an engaging conversation filled with laughter, insights, and a behind-the-scenes look at the audiobook industry! Timeline: 00:00 - Jeremy Bartelt does narration of audiobooks, romance and erotica 05:34 - He started working in music studios in Chicago and then moved to Minneapolis 10:16 - It takes a long time to edit audio. 13:53 - Almost every time I narrate for myself or others I find errors 18:35 - It's harder to distinguish personalities in audiobooks 18:56 - How did you approach narrating sex scenes in your audiobooks 23:22 - You have to be everything in an audiobook. Like if you're in a play or a movie or a show 25:23 - I hate accents. Yeah, I Don't like them either 29:07 - People have a strong reaction to audiobooks 33:44 - When you're editing audiobooks, you're being hypersensitive 37:32 - It had to be that scene. Like, it couldn't be something else 44:36 - Some authors cannot afford audiobooks 50:53 - You mentioned getting into character for sex scenes. How does the character do it 52:21 - Do you have a favorite genre that you like to narrate 59:20 - Are you expanding into other areas of your career beyond 01:02:01 - Where do you fall in character development versus do we jump right in 01:06:52 - The music side will never leave me. 01:08:52 - So if an erotica author wanted to hire you would they find you on acx 01:15:32 - Dialogue tags can be crucial in an audiobook 01:19:39 - Your publisher is Four Horsemen Publications. What particular genres do they publish made with the assistance of headliner ai Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 608: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 1, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Naked in the Forest. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. Written by author, podcaster, and narrator Ruan Willow. Enjoy this audio erotica excerpt, focusing on erotic romance. Book Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while. When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy. *Lust First. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. *Open sexuality and intimate sexual relationships Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Get the audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshungeraudiobook Get Deception's Snare, the full novel: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare Join for $3.00 a month for access to the full audiobook and ALL the backlog episodes that are padlocked. How do you subscribe? Read below: Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 607: The Healing Power of Smut: From Pastor to Spicy Pen, Amy W. Vogel's Empowerment Journey. Guest Bio: Amy W. Vogel is an author who writes about feminine empowerment, spicy reverse age gap romance, historical fantasy with romance, urban fantasy with romance, and she's a coach for women authors. She's a former pastor and shares her transformative journey from being a pastor to writing spicy romance. She shares about her venture into spicy storytelling and writing books. Find more about Amy here: https://www.amywvogel.com/ Books: Feminine Rising (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/42OoKSy The Assist: A Spicy Soccer Romance https://amzn.to/3RWQU7K Teleosis https://amzn.to/3ENSwxI Summary: Join Ruan Willow as she dives deep into a spicy conversation with writer Amy W. Vogel, a former pastor turned author, about the transformative journey of embracing sexuality and the healing power of smut in literature. Amy shares her unique experiences navigating the complexities of faith, femininity, and freedom, all while exploring the world of romance and erotic fiction. Together, they discuss the importance of female voices in writing, the liberation that comes from owning one's sexuality, and how the act of reading and writing can serve as a powerful tool for healing and empowerment. Get ready for a candid discussion filled with laughter, insights, and plenty of spicy revelations! Timeline: 00:00 - Amy W. Vogel used to be a pastor 04:06 - Do you do more non fiction or do you do some fiction 06:31 - Sport themed book 07:06 - So what is it do you think that is healing about either reading or writing 12:58 - People are trying to censor the spicy romance that people want to read 17:16 - When I first started this podcast, I wasn't very judgmental, but now I'm even less so 20:27 - What do you think about the fact that there are no female voices in the Bible 26:56 - 67% of self published authors are female and most are romance writers 32:00 - So I'm working on my sixth book and it's actually speaking of the Bible 36:59 - Part of being a human is her sexuality and having sex 41:21 - Romance bookstores are popping up all over the place owned by women 45:11 - You don't immediately have to dive into dark erotica 49:04 - A woman wrote a book about how to strengthen your vagina during sex Bel Di Lorenzo wrote The Goh!dess Method Show notes created with the assistance of headliner app Quotes from Amy: "The healing for me is... whatever you decide to choose to do with that history allows you to either stay stuck or move forward." "Pleasure is our birthright. We have been given that gift as women." "If you want to explore, start slow and just have fun." Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Episode 605: A Stranger Seduced Me Right in Front of My Husband, and We Both Liked it, an erotic fiction story, erotica, smut, with a little bit of erotic romance tossed in! This was a fan request! Give me your request and I'll write it and narrate it on the podcast! Miranda and Luke are heading to her BFF'S wedding, and as they are joined at their table by a sexy stranger, their night, and their marriage, is forever changed. The sexy stranger, Curt, takes an interest in Miranda, and he sets his hooks into her. As the evening progresses, his passes at Miranda advance and she can't resist his sexual charms, when things get hotter than they expected, Miranda runs off to cool down in the bathroom. What happens in the bathroom leads to all three being satiated in new and exciting ways. Their sex life will be forever changed for the better! Tropes: Stranger hookup sex, public sex, sexual sharing, heightened desires from fulfilling hidden dark desires, love, sexuality Enjoy this erotic storytelling and erotic audio, and let it heat up your night and knock your socks off! Get your self care here, and pay attention to your sexual wellness. Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it! Smut fiction is healing! Enjoy! Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 610: Love, sex, and sexuality are the most essential topics to explore in storytelling! Meet Olive Spencer: I’m Olive Spencer, and I write smut. Not just any smut; the kind of smut you have to read one-handed, with a glass of water beside the bed. The kind that leaves you sweating, panting, and begging for more. When you pick up one of my books, you can expect spice, spice, and more spice! When I’m not writing, I’m watching hockey and talking smack online, listening to country music, or taking photos with any camera I can find. I am not a Gemini vegetarian, but I am a fan of all things Reese Witherspoon, and I can quote Sweet Home Alabama by heart. Author Website: http://www.olivespencer.com Author Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ospencersmut Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ospencersmut/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@ospencersmut X/Twitter: https://x.com/misskmagpie **From Pen Names to Steamy Stories: A Journey into Erotic Romance Writing** Step into the sultry world of erotic romance as author Olive Spencer shares her fascinating journey from writing under her real name to embracing a pen name for exploring spicier themes. Discover how she navigates the delicate balance between plot and intimacy, crafting stories that keep the "door open" in romance while maintaining engaging narratives. Learn about her unique writing process, from wearing red lipstick and lighting candles to creating specialized playlists that set the mood. Olive reveals her current projects, including a 35,000-word novel with three prequels and a steamy retelling of "Sweet Home Alabama" set in Colorado. The episode also dives into the business side of erotic romance, covering everything from ghostwriting experiences to audiobook production challenges. Get insights into building an author platform, managing reader expectations, and the importance of exploring themes of love, sex, and sexuality in storytelling. Ready to heat up your writing journey? Listen to this episode for an unfiltered look into the world of erotic romance writing! Key Takeaways: • The authors embrace their identity as "professional smut writers" and the joy of exploring taboo themes in their storytelling. • They discuss the importance of balancing plot and intimacy in their erotic romance novels. • The authors share their writing processes, from "pantsing" to "plotting," and the continuous learning and growth required in their craft. Summary created with the assistance of cleanvoice ai Ruan's newest release: Open Door Romantasy Deception's Snare: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 603: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 7 of 8 in book 1, an Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Tent sex. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. They were having a great day...but it wasn't meant to last. Desperate to get with him, she uses her powers of seduction. Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while. When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Episode 602: MMF The Gas Station Biker Ride, Laney's Stranger Hookup, a side story to the book and audiobook Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures by Ruan Willow. This erotic short story has erotic storytelling with MMF action with the Dominant Male directing his hotwife in a wife sharing encounter, in an ethical nonmonogamy (ENM) marriage, with exhibitionism, voyeurism, and mild BDSM impact play. The road trip strip, where Laney takes it all off and gets busy and raunchy with a stranger in a gas station. Enjoy your sexuality and marinate in it daily, take pleasure in erotic audio, erotic storytelling in this kinky sex fiction story. Get the other books in this series Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures with John and Laney: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenseries Check out one of Ruan's favorite toys! (affiliate link): https://www.lovense.com/r/mniiet Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Episode 601: Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett. Guest Bio: Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She is the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast, and the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown. She is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, GQ, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour. In 2023, she was nominated for somatic sexologist of the year at the sexual freedom awards. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again. Summary: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: A Revolutionary Conversation Dive into a transformative discussion between Ruan Willow and sexologist Lucy Rowett as they tackle the often-silenced topic of women's sexual pleasure. This eye-opening episode challenges the deeply rooted shame surrounding female sexuality and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our natural desires. Lucy, a specialist in supporting women and non-binary individuals, shares powerful insights about: - The universal impact of sexual shame across all backgrounds - Dismantling harmful cultural narratives that suppress pleasure - The importance of comprehensive sexual education - Understanding female arousal and the physiology of pleasure - Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration and expression The conversation navigates through the evolution of female sexuality in modern culture, from the mainstreaming of erotic literature to the vital role of sex-positive communities in fostering acceptance and growth. Ready to transform your relationship with pleasure and embrace a shame-free approach to sexuality? This episode is your gateway to understanding and celebrating your sexual wellbeing. Tune in now for an empowering journey towards sexual liberation. Sexual health is mental health, and your sexual wellness matters! Links: Learn more: https://lucyrowett.com/ Free guide to confident sexual communication: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywant Free meditation to connect to your vulva: https://bit.ly/handheartv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett Podcast: The Naked and Unashamed Life Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=2ce2d298be93495c Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 600: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 6, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, SEX! Finally, she's been waiting! Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. They were having a great day...but it wasn't meant to last. Desperate to get with him, she uses her powers of seduction. Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while. When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 599: Watching the Blindfolded Wife Threesome by Sierra Dumont, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. A MFM Hotwife erotic lit story where the hubby is the director of the sexy goings-on! Female pleasure on overload! Yes please! It's an alternative lifestyle relationship where he enjoys wife-sharing with his friend and co-worker, ENM style! Scroll down to access free erotic books! About the Author Sierra Dumont: Sierra writes about women being passed around, used, and shared—all with the encouragement of their loving husbands. All stories are about the hottest wives being pleasured in every way possible, whether by one man or multiple! Learn more: https://sierradumont.com/ Anthology: Get the spicy anthology book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache FREE TODAY AND TOMORROW ONLY! 4/22/25 AND 4/23/25 GET ALL THE FREE EROTICA FOR TWO DAYS ONLY 4/22-4/23/25: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/g1jlFW1 Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan daily starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalist Woman owned bookstore with Ruan's books: get her books and support an indie bookshop! https://www.heabookshop.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep: 598 From Repression to Expression: A Writer's Journey into Erotic Literature. Guest Bio: Ramone Quides is a renaissance polymath who discovered the joys and fulfillment of creative writing later in life. He enjoys writing diverse, connective stories that elevate and celebrate all the places the unencumbered minds can wander. The array of fictional literary erotica he’s dreamt up for your enjoyment are intended to tickle your overt and covert interests and fantasies. His celebrations of varied genders, interests and preferences have been published in: The Big Book of Quickies by Rachel Kramer Bussel (affiliate links for books) https://amzn.to/3Y6zDMQ Erotica For Men: And the Women Who Love Them, Volume II by Rose Caraway https://amzn.to/3Gf93Ln Rosy: A women’s health and wellness site that uses erotica as one of their resources to increase sexual desire eLust: A monthly publication with broad-ranging content that includes stories, poetry, advice, reviews, and insights from writers Theo: A site containing stories from romance on up from some of the greatest writers of our generation Stories, blog posts and/or commentary can also be found at ramonequides.com Instagram, BlueSky, Threads and Twitter as @ramonequides Summary: Discover how embracing creativity later in life led Ramone to find his voice through erotic storytelling. In this episode, Ramone shares his transformation from a life of emotional repression to becoming a passionate writer of diverse and healing erotic literature. The conversation explores how societal expectations initially stifled Ramone's self-expression until a pivotal moment in his 40s changed everything. After dedicating a year to creative exploration, he emerged with three distinct stories under a carefully chosen pseudonym, channeling years of "quiet desperation" into empowering narratives. We dive deep into discussions about the intersection of creativity, sexuality, and personal growth. Ramone reveals how his journey has not only enhanced his writing but also deepened his relationship with his partner, leading to more open communication and a flourishing intimate life well into his 60s. Listen now to discover how it's never too late to pursue your passion and find personal freedom through art. Excerpt: Enjoy an excerpt at the end of the interview from Ramone's story "A Second Chance at Submission" narrated by Ruan Willow. Key Takeaways: • Ramon began writing erotic stories later in life, highlighting that it's never too late to pursue creative passions. • He views erotic literature as a powerful tool for emotional healing and personal growth, challenging societal norms around sexuality. • The episode emphasizes midlife as an opportunity for self-acceptance and deeper intimacy, promoting open communication in relationships. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 597: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 5, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Kiss Me Before You Go! Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. They were having a great day...but it wasn't meant to last. Desperate to get with him, she uses her powers of seduction. Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while. When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 596: The Professor's Forbidden Pet, A Professor Student Age Gap by Ava Kade, narrated by Ruan Willow. A MF, age gap: older man, younger woman, professor-student erotica excerpt, oh the oral description is delish! This! This is SO HOT! One of my faves of the excerpt! Yes please, bring this on! I'm a BIG FAN! That'll wake up a woman's libido in the thought of a heartbeat! About the Author Ava Kade: Ava Kade is a passionate writer of sweet and spicy age gap stories, centered around mature, dominant older men and naughty younger women. A lot of them contain a touch of the forbidden and taboo, everything laced together with lots of romance. Anthology: Get the spicy anthology book! It's ON SALE for only 99 cents right now!!! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan daily starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalist Woman owned bookstore with Ruan's books: get her books and support an indie bookshop! https://www.heabookshop.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 595: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 5: Exploring Dark and Taboo Themes in Fiction Can Be Healing For Women with author Stephani Del Rey. Exploring the Empowering Side of Dark Sexual Fantasies. Overall, the discussion explores the nuances of dark/taboo subgenres and the importance of reframing the narratives around them. About Stephani Del Rey: Stephani Del Rey loves to write about sexy, independent women who know what they want - especially if it involves being taught a lesson by a LOT of hot, dominant men! She writes MMFM/ gangbang/ reverse harem erotica that features sharing, degradation, erotic humiliation, spanking, light bondage and plenty of edging and dirty talk. Her mission is to deliver on that female submission kink while keeping it fun, trashy and empowering. She lives in the UK, where she dreams of one day having a walk-in wardrobe for her lingerie. Mailing list and get a free book: http://eepurl.com/h_VHrD https://www.amazon.com/stores/Stephani-Del-Rey/author/B0BGYQ7JH6 Shared by the Special Forces An MMFM Humiliation Story (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/42HTFzO Summary: Journey into the complex world of erotic storytelling with UK-based author Stephanie Del Rey, who crafts tales of strong women exploring their submission fantasies. This fascinating discussion delves into how erotic fiction serves as a powerful tool for processing trauma, challenging cultural norms, and reclaiming female sexual agency. The conversation explores controversial themes including the "male gaze," consensual non-consent, and the healing potential of taboo fantasies. Del Rey shares personal insights about how her own experiences shaped her writing, particularly in creating stories where female characters find empowerment through their sexuality while being cherished by protective, dominant partners. Topics: Primal Desires and Submission, Reclaiming Sexuality Through Erotic Fiction, The Objectification of Women in Media and Culture, Empowering Women's Sexuality and Consent, Exploring the Origins and Acceptance of Kinks, Empowering Female Sexuality in Erotica, Exploring Female Sexuality Through Fiction, Exploring Nuanced Perspectives on Kink and Gender, The Appeal of Dominant-Submissive Dynamics and also Humiliation and Degradation Kinks, Navigating Censorship in the Digital Age, The Precarious Nature of Online Content Creation, Reclaiming/redefining the Gangb**g and asking for it: Celebrating Female Pleasure Key Takeaways: • Reclaiming terms like "asking for it" can empower women to explore their desires safely through fantasy, rather than feeling shame. • Fiction allows women to confront their fears around violence and vulnerability, processing these experiences in a controlled setting. • Exploring taboo themes in a fictional context can have a healing potential for women. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Episode 594: My Husband Shared Me with His Best Friend, A Hotwife Excerpt by Kassia White, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. It's a mega hot MMF threesome pleasure filled scene! About the Author: Kassia White is an author of hotwife erotica. Her books are light on plot but are packed with heat. All the stories feature slutty women eager to be shared by their happy husbands, sometimes with just one man, and other times with oh, so many. Get the spicy anthology book! It's ON SALE for only 99 cents right now!!! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalist Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 593: Wingless Hunger, Chapter 4, Open Door Spicy Romantasy, Skinny Dipping. Gabreilla was naked in the forest when she smelled a man nearby. She used all her sex appeal and her beautiful siren singing voice to draw him in...as a siren-fairy-human, she had special abilities. But what she needed most was his cock. Audiobook Blurb: Gabriella can smell men. Which is a good thing since she desperately needs men. It’s not every fairy who also has siren in her, which allows her to use her irresistible singing voice to draw them nearer. Since she can’t leave her invisible cage, this is a very useful talent, especially when it comes to drawing men to her area of the forest. Most men will do, however, they only stay for little while. When she senses Leif hiking down the path, she experiences the usual growth in her size, which is imperative because if he can’t see her, none of the good stuff will happen. He's different than the other men were, he might just be the solution she seeks. But then there’s also the other paralyzing problem of trying to attain her freedom. All she desires is a happier, less lonely life once again, human sized. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING