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How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

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What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com

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What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com

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Ep. 539 How to Be Vulnerable Without Looking Weak (Throwback Ep!)

8/5/2025
This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some). In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak, or like you’re making excuses for who you are. Adam breaks down how to own your truth, express emotion, and connect deeply with women—without ever losing your edge. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just trying to get better at opening up, this conversation is a must-listen as it’s Insightful, honest, and practical, as always! >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty

Duration:00:52:57

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Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression

7/29/2025
In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re talking about how to come back from a cringey first impression without losing the girl (or your dignity). Comedian and crowd-reading master K.T. Tatara joins Kristen to break down what actually kills a first impression and more importantly, how to recover with grace, humor, and a little self-awareness. They dig into: The difference between awkward and unrecoverable Why trying to “over-fix” makes it worse How to use self-deprecation strategically The power of naming the weird energy in the room When to own it, when to pivot, and when to walk away Whether you’ve bombed a banter opener or said something that made her eyebrows do the thing… this episode is your crash course in bouncing back.

Duration:00:59:11

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Ep. 537 Confidence Isn’t a Mystery, It’s a Skill (with Alpha M)

7/22/2025
We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino. In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word. We dive into: Why confidence has nothing to do with arrogance The grooming/style habits that change how you feel, not just how you look How small wins (not big achievements) create real swagger What to do when you're spiraling in self-doubt Why the “get out of your comfort zone” cliché still works—and how to do it without burning out This one’s packed with clarity, no fluff, and high-impact takeaways for any guy ready to stop overthinking and start showing up like a man who knows his worth. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:37:59

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Ep. 536 Emotional Intelligence: A Trait Women CRAVE

7/15/2025
If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you. We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and why it’s the missing link for so many men when it comes to connection, attraction, and trust. We break down how emotional intelligence helps you actually understand what a woman is feeling, how to respond in a way that makes her feel safe, and why it’s the antidote to being seen as a “trauma dumper.” You’ll learn how to: getting This one’s packed with gems, so you gotta listen. >>> Get Mindsets and Emotional Intelligence Insights from Jevon Wooden ⁠HERE⁠ >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:52:34

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Ep. 535 Sexual Shame No More!

7/8/2025
In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame. Whether it’s shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what’s “normal,” this shame often goes unspoken — but it’s sabotaging your confidence, your connection with women, and your ability to feel powerful in your own skin. Dr. Shermer breaks down where this shame comes from, how to reframe it, and what to do right now to stop letting it control your dating life. This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like your anxiety in dating or sex is coming from something deeper… because chances are, it is. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:01:01:15

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Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry

7/1/2025
🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of the most powerful tools for increasing attraction, creating sexual tension, and deepening connection. We’re joined by Ally Iseman from Passport2Pleasure.com, and she’s breaking down how to harness jealousy in a healthy way - whether you’re navigating early dating, a committed relationship, or just trying to spark that “charge” back into your love life. We talk about: What jealousy is really telling you How to use it to create playful intrigue Why avoiding jealousy kills desire And how to stay grounded (not needy) while using it to your advantage If you’ve ever felt triggered, anxious, or powerless in the face of jealousy, this episode will flip the script—and help you turn it into fuel for connection instead. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:52:37

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Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It

6/24/2025
It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity. Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly want—not just in dating, but in life. We also dig into why so many people don’t even know what they want, and how to finally get clear so you can confidently ask for it (and get it). If you’ve ever held back, talked yourself out of something, or waited too long, this episode is your wake-up call. www.braddemint.com >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself . Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:38:30

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Ep. 532 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think

6/18/2025
This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.” Susan shares expert insights on what actually causes ED, how to regain confidence and sensitivity, and why the porn you’re watching might be sabotaging your sex life. Plus, we get into what women really want when it comes to intimacy—and spoiler: it’s not about being a porn star. If you've ever felt insecure about getting or staying hard—or just want to up your bedroom game—this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Susan's resources: PumpingGuide.com PumpsWork.com BetterLover.com Meet Susan: Instagram.com/susanbratton >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself . Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:36:18

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Ep. 531 Style That Makes Women DROOL

6/10/2025
This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN. Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy. The ladies dive into: HOW to dress in a way that makes her stop mid-sentence WHY certain looks make women feel giddy and drawn in WHAT it takes to turn the sidewalk into your personal runway Because here’s the truth: how you dress tells the world how you treat yourself — with confidence, pride, and respect. And when you carry yourself like that, the world (and women) respond in kind. Style isn’t just fabric. It’s your first impression, your silent introduction, and a powerful tool in attraction. Don’t miss this one. >>> Become the most magnetic version of yourself with fully transformative coaching. Consult with Kristen directly here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:24:34

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Ep. 530 Unlocking Confidence and Why Women Do and Don't Date Older Men

6/3/2025
Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply. They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can be desirable and WHY dating younger/the same age range can also be desirable so you have a better idea of what make you and your age-range appealing. It’s honest, insightful, and full of practical tips to help you show up with more confidence and connection in your dating life. >>> Become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself. Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:45:56

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Ep. 529 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language

5/27/2025
What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self. Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today. This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears. 🔥 Tune in to learn: The secret power of precise language How to eliminate approach anxiety through word choice Real-time mindset rewiring in action This one’s a game changer. >>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:42:50

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Ep. 528 Break Free: How Hidden Trauma Is Running Your Life (And How to Stop It)

5/20/2025
Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize. In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so they stop running the show. From small emotional wounds to deep-rooted pain, we explore how trauma affects everything from your confidence to your dating life to your sense of self. Tori shares real, practical tools for identifying and healing unresolved issues — so you can finally start living freely and fully. >>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠ >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:53:03

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Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her

5/13/2025
In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences. We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn’t, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to explore and communicate desire without killing the mood, how to bring more sensuality into your touch, and how to come across as the sexy, grounded man women crave—without second-guessing yourself. Whether you're just starting to explore intimacy or want to take your bedroom confidence to the next level, this episode will give you a new perspective on pleasure, connection, and what women actually want. >>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession >>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠

Duration:00:36:39

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Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women

5/6/2025
What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships? In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. We dive into: What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychology How to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connection Personal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughs A grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shame If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of you you’ve been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well). This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠ https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen >>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:55:11

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Ep. 525 The Secret Weapon You’re Ignoring: Your Imperfections

4/29/2025
This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want. Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it. We also dive into: How to find and pursue the right woman for you How to build a strategy for attracting a specific girl How to get different types of women based on what you want How to mentally overcome obstacles without ever stepping into therapy ...and so much more. Don’t miss this one — it’s packed with fresh insights that could change the way you see yourself (and how women see you). This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠ https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen >>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:44:58

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Ep. 524 Rewire Your Mind, Attract Her Heart: The Hypnosis Hack

4/22/2025
We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women. Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it till you make it' is real, and she’ll show you how.) Whether you’re a man ready to level up or a woman curious about the inner workings of confidence and attraction, this episode has something for you. We also break down and (over)analyze: What makes someone truly charismatic How to give your woman what she wants without losing yourself Simple, powerful things you can say that instantly make you more lovable …and so much more. This one’s packed. >>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:46:04

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Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure

4/15/2025
In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible. Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected. We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn’t even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all. This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again. >>>To become the most WITTY, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:56:26

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Ep. 522 Dating Women in Their 50's - They've Still Got It

4/9/2025
In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically. She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communication that truly feels attractive and emotionally safe. We also get real about how things like hormones, life experience, and shifting priorities impact how women date and what kind of connection they’re open to now. If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with women in their 50s or you're re-entering the dating world yourself, this conversation is packed with what you need to know to date in this age range successfully. Need personalized coaching to get out of your dating rut?? >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Duration:00:58:36

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Ep. 521 Getting What You Want and Owning Who You Are

4/1/2025
Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn’t serving you well, don’t worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen

Duration:00:42:04

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Ep. 520 Finding Love Through Music w/ Rachel Van Nortwick of Vinylly

3/25/2025
Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction. Plus, we break down the transition from working together to dating - when it works, when it doesn’t, and how to navigate the shift without hitting a wrong note. If you’ve ever bonded over a band or wondered if your favorite song could lead you to your person, this episode is for you. Join Vinylly at https://vinyllyapp.com >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ >>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠ https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen

Duration:00:48:29