The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you interested in or curious about swinging or non-monogamy, but unsure how to bring it up to your partner? Are you wondering if the Swinging Lifestyle is right for you and your partner? Join us for our 8th anniversary episode with Relationship Coach, Lauren Hayes, author of For Better and Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-monogamist, as we review her book from the inside out, each lesson bringing its own dimension to the discussion of: Would we? Could we? Should we? GUEST: Lauren Hayes Lauren Hayes is relationship coach specializing in supporting ethically non-monogamous (ENM) couples, including swingers and the ENM-curious. Trained in both life and relationship coaching, she helps couples navigate and engage the swinging and non-monogamous community in the healthiest of ways. She holds the perspective that non-monogamous relationships share the same foundations of any healthy relationship, however, they need to operate at a higher level of health to accommodate the additional complexities. Her approach aims to help couples build their ideal relationship, regardless of whether or how many others it includes. She also brings personal experience to her coaching having been married for 19+ years and ENM (swingers) for the last 6+ years. She offers coaching and practical advice grounded in her own life as well as professional training - she goes by Swinging Lifestyle Coach and her website is SwingingLifestyleCoach.com. Website: https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0Ew Podcast: https://pod.link/1767688018

Are you feeling somewhat disconnected from yourself and your body? Have you recently gone through a serious break-up, relationship decline or simply feeling a little down and vulnerable, making you push your needs and desires to the back burner? Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Sarah Campbell, from MeB4We.ca, as we talk about how to reconnect with your intimate sexy self and reclaim your pleasure and confidence fast. Through focused coaching techniques that empower and identify target issues like low libido, body confidence, sexual inhibition, orgasmic exploration, and communication breakdowns in relationships, Sarah can help you reignite your spark and create the pleasure filled life you deserve.

Are you thinking about opening up your relationship when it comes to sex? Are you considering sharing your sexy experiences with other open-minded couples? Or perhaps, you simply want to add some new sexy fantasies into your repertoire and share them with your partner? Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with a seasoned swinger couple as we all have a blast recounting swinger stories, sexy adventures and insight into how to keep your sex-life spicy, naughty and fun!

Do you ever wonder how single guys survive and thrive in The Lifestyle? How do they navigate the rules and expectations in a world of couples where women are empowered to drive the situation? Join us with Topless Travel Host, George, a single man in The Lifestyle, on The Bliss Cruise with 6000 open-minded guests as we get into the do’s and don’ts, that help make successful encounters with threesomes, fivesomes and orgies. He also shares details of his OnlyFans Account, The Hotwife Hunter, that keeps him busy with content creation.

How do we empower women to take charge of their sexual wellness when the head of governmental policies promotes the exact opposite sentiment? Join us with a Neuroscientist, Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of: Why Good Sex Matters, as she shares her opinions on the future of women’s sexual health and wellness under the newly elected government. From a reduction of reproductive rights to normalizing sexual assault, Dr Nan discusses some of her scary predictions about how women will be affected by the new leadership in America and why it is more important now, than ever before, to focus on pleasure.

Do you ever wonder what kind of perseverance it takes to go from single Mom to Millionaire? The male dominated porn industry has changed so much over the past decade, giving way to some smart, business-savvy female sex workers to rise to the top and make a name for themselves. Join us with Porn Star, Rachel Steele, CEO of Red MLF Productions, as she shares stories of her journey from exploitation to ultimate success as the very first taboo/fetish MILF on the internet. We discover how she navigates the challenges of running a porn production company where she taps into her natural talents as actress, producer, writer, director, set designer, costumer and makeup artist.

Are you looking to experience the sexiest vacation ever? The most erotic and iconic vacations begin with open-minded guests and talented hosts who understand the particular mind-set of people in the Sexy Lifestyle. Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach in Jamaica with Party Marc from Topless Travel as we discuss how he gets the guests to open-up and explore their sexuality through music, games and his unique perspective on life.

What would you do if your partner asked you for a yoni massage? Would you know what to do to turn her on in all her senses… mentally, physical and emotionally? Join us with Yoni Expert, YoniMaster Rick, as we learn everything there is to know about yoni massage. The who, the what, the when, the where, the why and the how, are all so interesting that you’ll want to start your lessons immediately. You can actually change your relationship overnight by making her feel “alive” with erotic massage.

Gentlemen, do you ever wake up in the morning after another sleepless night and not recognize the person in the mirror? Perhaps you see less hair, more wrinkles and a bigger waistline and feel sluggish, moody and generally less sexy? Are you wondering if this is just a matter of getting old or could it be something more serious? Join us with Urologist, Dr Judson Brandeis, author of The 21st Century Man, as we dive deep into the symptoms and treatment of andropause (male menopause) and the consequences of declining testosterone levels and the benefits of hormone replacement therapy for men.

Are you the kind of person who loves to party, but also loves to make sure everyone else is having the same great time that you are? Are you open-minded and willing to grow with new experiences including sexual exploration? Join us at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we chat with Sexy Sarah, a new hostess for Topless Travel Events as she experiences her first time at Hedo and also, her first time working with the legendary, Party Marc. We learn about the past experiences that brought her to be selected as the next sexy side-kick to the king of partying. From the sexy pool parties, to the catamaran cruise and all the crazy antics, she shares details of what it’s like to host a Topless Travel event.

Do you feel like you have not reached your sexual potential? Perhaps our cultural ideas about sex and pleasure are affecting your overall health and happiness. Join us with Neuroscientist and Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of Why Good Sex Matters, as she explains scientifically how sexual pleasure affects our wellbeing. She emphasizes that good sex is not just a luxury. It’s not just a cherry on top. Good sex matters. Orgasms matter. Pleasure matters. Take it from a neuroscientist.

Does size matter? For many people, this question brings out a resounding “Hell yes!” And for many penis owners, it’s a matter of length and girth. And for that reason, penis enlargement procedures have become more sought after than ever before. Join us with Dr Joel Pash, CEO of Upsize Clinic, specializing in penile enlargement procedures, as we talk about cosmetic enhancements, injectable fillers, devices, and drugs. We find out which procedures work, which ones are safe and why men want/need them. Whether you have erectile dysfunction, pyrones disease, or just looking for easier and harder erections, the availability of safe and sustainable solutions is real, making this “upsize” industry growing as we speak.

Do you ever wonder why you have specific kinks? Do you feel uncomfortable discussing your kinky fantasies with your partner or close friends? Perhaps you want to add some kink into your boring sex life. Join us with Kink Expert, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, a Psychologist and Sex & Intimacy Coach, as she explains the ins-and-outs of the kinky lifestyle and why many people’s sex lives are driven by sub/dom relationships and other fetishes. We talk about opening up relationships to explore deeper, more meaningful intimacy and to heal from past sexual trauma

Have you ever experienced periods of self-loathing or even self-hatred? Are you still trying to come to terms with who you are or who you want be? Perhaps you were bullied, ostracized or abused as an adolescent and developed a negative attitude towards your self worth? Join us with author, Elizabeth Hendrick, who wrote EXODAI, A Shockingly Honest Memoir of Love, Obsession and Torture, as she explains how and why she had a long-term submissive relationship with a Japanese Dominatrix, in which she received sadistic torture – for the benefit of love. Not for the faint-hearted, this memoir describes what she experienced there and how she found her way back.

Are you playing the dating game and always wondering what is the appropriate amount of time you should wait before having sex with a new partner? Join Sexologist, Dr. Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she chats with Laurie Gerber, a renowned relationship coach and co-president of the Handel Group. Together, they discuss new romantic relationships and the natural instinct to explore sexual connection with any new partner. Laurie shares her insights on the importance of self-awareness and communication in setting your own pace for intimacy, as well as navigating your partner's comfort level. Drawing on her vast experience in helping individuals and couples build healthy, fulfilling relationships, Laurie offers practical tips for assessing your own needs and boundaries and making sure you are on the same page as your potential partner. Whether you've just started dating or are looking to reevaluate your current relationship, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance on the intricate balance of timing and intimacy.

Have you been suffering from orgasm difficulty in silence? Are you too ashamed to talk to anyone about it? Perhaps you think there’s nothing you can do to help your situation? Join us with Orgasm Expert and Researcher, Dr Suzanne Mulvehill, founder of the Female Orgasm Research Institute, as she explains how her research with cannabis has proven to help women with Female Orgasm Difficulty Disorder (FOD). We discuss the need to open-up about orgasms and normalize the conversation in order to help these women, because the percentage of those suffering from orgasm difficulty has not changed in 50 years despite improvements in sex education, gender equality and sex therapy.

Wouldn’t you love to be a fly on the wall at a high-end brothel and watch what goes on during a day in the life of a successful Courtesan? That would be so enlightening, educational and could help to normalize conversations about sex work. Join us as we chat with America's longest-serving female legal brothel owner, Madam Bella Cummins, who is the proprietor of Bella's Hacienda Ranch, a licensed brothel in Wells, Nevada. She has owned and operated the brothel for over 30 years and can speak at length about the ins-and-outs of legalized prostitution in Nevada and what it's like to manage one of these unique businesses. Bella is always advocating for sex workers including her current fight about replacing derogatory terms like ‘prostitute’ which perpetuate social stigmas and stereotypes which lead to further discrimination and marginalization of sex workers.

Are you considering joining The Lifestyle community as a way of spicing up your sex life and strengthening your couple’s relationship? Perhaps you’re wondering if the thrill of the adventure fades over the years. Does The Lifestyle ever become unexciting and ‘same-old’? Join us with a couple of long-time friends whom we met in The Lifestyle over a decade ago as we recount the stories from when we were newbies in The Lifestyle when every party, event or trip was hotter than the last one, and we all had SEXY FOMO. We get into the adventures and the sexy-fun times we shared together and the evolution of our relationships, our friendships and our experiences in The Lifestyle and end up examining where we’re at today… how we keep it hot and spicy in our own ways.

Do you ever wonder what motivates porn stars to expose themselves to judgment, shame, guilt, and objectification, even though their line of work is so much in demand, that there’s never enough sexual content to satisfy the world’s appetite for porn. Join us as we chat with Sadie Summers, the friendly neighborhood MILF, who returned to sex work after leaving the industry for the “wholesome” job of nursing, only to re-establish her previous identity as a porn star and embrace the role with an open minded and sex positive attitude… without shame or embarrassment.