How Do I Sexy?
Nillin Lore
What even is "sexy," and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In How Do I Sexy?, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger. You're invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You'll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Nillin Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen—both in the streets and between the sheets.
Duration - 5h 33m.
Author - Nillin Lore.
Narrator - Ezra Wayne.
Published Date - Wednesday, 10 January 2024.
Location:
United States
Description:
What even is "sexy," and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In How Do I Sexy?, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger. You're invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You'll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Nillin Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen—both in the streets and between the sheets. Duration - 5h 33m. Author - Nillin Lore. Narrator - Ezra Wayne. Published Date - Wednesday, 10 January 2024.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
Duration:00:00:14
Opening Credits
Duration:00:00:14
Dedication
Duration:00:00:15
Dedication
Duration:00:00:15
Epigraph
Duration:00:00:14
Epigraph
Duration:00:00:14
Foreword
Duration:00:05:22
Foreword
Duration:00:05:22
Acknowledgements
Duration:00:02:29
Acknowledgements
Duration:00:02:29
Chapter 1: The Ventura Effect
Duration:00:47:37
Chapter 1: The Ventura Effect
Duration:00:47:37
Chapter 2: What the Heck Even Is "Sexy"?
Duration:00:34:15
Chapter 2: What the Heck Even Is "Sexy"?
Duration:00:34:15
Chapter 3: Coping with Fear, Shame, Guilt and Insecurity
Duration:00:44:11
Chapter 3: Coping with Fear, Shame, Guilt and Insecurity
Duration:00:44:11
Chapter 4: Making Your Personal Mantras
Duration:00:16:15
Chapter 4: Making Your Personal Mantras
Duration:00:16:15
Chapter 5: Saying No to Traditional Gender Roles and Other Toxic Ideals
Duration:00:29:48
Chapter 5: Saying No to Traditional Gender Roles and Other Toxic Ideals
Duration:00:29:48
Chapter 6: Get Your Sexy On
Duration:01:08:46
Chapter 6: Get Your Sexy On
Duration:01:08:46
Chapter 7: Dating, Flirting and Finding Community
Duration:00:36:18
Chapter 7: Dating, Flirting and Finding Community
Duration:00:36:18
Chapter 8: Trans Queer–Affirming Sex: What It Is and How to Have It
Duration:00:46:59
Conclusion: Eight Important Takeaways
Duration:00:00:07
About the Author
Duration:00:00:38