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Send us a text Episode 573: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career. Connect with Dani: https://linktr.ee/dani.synclair In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world. Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own boundaries and desires. Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection. Quotes from Dani from the interview: "The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry." "It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked." "Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever." Timeline: 00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch 02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish? 06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to 10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there 15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say 21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age 27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me 31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation 36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing 37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events 41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea 44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far 46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do 48:42 - The future 50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work 52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it Show notes headliner dot app Ruan's new open door Romantasy novella, Rejecting Queendom, Book 3 in the Arching Hunger Series is releasing soon! Reserve your copy here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendom Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 572: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 5, SCARLET, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David Myers Story Blurb: Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans. When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra. But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them. Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, dark romance, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror. Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well! Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Episode 571: MFM Big Junk at the Gym Hotwife Erotica Excerpt by Max Sebastian. Author Bio: Max Sebastian has written more than 20 novels in two decades, specializing in the thrilling erotic adventures of insatiable couples seeking to challenge the conventions of monogamy. Max is originally from London, in the UK, but now lives with his family in the United States. https://maxsebastian.net/ Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology Other links from the episode: Heart of the South Crafting Company bookstore https://heart-of-the-south-crafting-co.square.site/about Bookshop Org Indie Bookstores https://bookshop.org/ Servicing the Work Men Spicy Hotwife Fiction by Ruan Willow (excerpt at the end of the episode) Book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures SFW book cover version: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginning Audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 570: Audiobook Narrating with Andria Mae Ali Dane from Closed Door to Dark & Spicy Guest Bio: Andria Mae (also Ali Dane) is a narrator who snuck into the audiobook party in 2021 and never looked back. With a passion for the art of novel to audio adaptations, she embraces everything from sweet and fluffy romances to dark, spicy, and even nerdy adventures. When she's not in the recording booth, she's tending to the tiniest of hobby farms, full of quirky animals that bring her immeasurable joy. Andria is devoted to transforming written words into immersive audio experiences, capturing every emotion and nuance along the way. Website: www.alidane.com Linktree: https://wlo/link/@RWTLO Instagram: @andria.mae.audiobooks and @ali.dane.audiobooks Lemon8: @ali.dane.audiobooks Threads: @ali.dane.audiobooks BlueSky: @Ali-Dane-Audiobooks Episode Summary: With a background in vocal performance and a passion for storytelling, Andria shares her journey from podcasting to audiobook narration, revealing how she discovered her love for this unique art form. In this episode, Ruan and Andria dive into the nuances of narrating different genres, from closed-door YA to spicy romance. They discuss the challenges of voice acting, including how to portray male characters and the intricacies of duet narration. Andria opens up about her creative process, the importance of preparation, and how she navigates the evolving landscape of audiobook production. As they explore the world of romance and the significance of representation in storytelling, you'll hear about Andria's favorite projects, including her recent work in the omegaverse and her collaborations with indie authors. 1. Introduction to Andria May and her journey into audiobook narration 2. The evolution of Andria's voice acting and narrating styles 3. Challenges and techniques for portraying male characters 4. Synchronous vs. asynchronous duet narration 5. Insights into the creative process and preparation for narration 6. Discussion on the representation of diverse voices in romance 7. Andria's favorite projects and upcoming releases 8. The impact of societal changes on book covers and marketing Some of Andria Mae's Audiobooks (affiliate links, commissions may be made on purchases that support the podcast, thank you!) The Summer Playbook https://amzn.to/41dbGp0 A Dose of Pretty Poison https://amzn.to/3EOt2j3 My Hot Best Friend is an Irish Vampire https://amzn.to/42UFBU8 Podcast Host Ruan's recent Audiobooks: Never Say, Never Swing https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neversayneverswingaudiobook Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 569: Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Parties, Part 14, The Spicy Video Shoot: Age Gap Daddy Dom scene, IN THE SERIES Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Sex Parties. An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. Join the subscription level for $3 for access to all of these episodes: Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996 Need part 6? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15951136 Seeking Part 7? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16007180 Find Part 8: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16071482 Get Part 9: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16186972 Enjoy Part 10: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16209922 Thirsting for Part 11: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16303764 Savor Part 12: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16346569 Delish Part 13: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16411152 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Escape, get your entertainment treat, and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 15 coming soon! Enjoy the kinky sex and spicy romance fiction! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Image from Shutterstock. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 568: The Boy Toy Next Door by Lara Annette, A Reverse Age Gap MF Erotica Excerpt, narrated by Podcast Host Ruan Willow. About the Author: Lara Annette is old enough to know better, and young enough not to care. Born in the sultry heat of Mexico City, she’s lived in Canada since she was a toddler, and still hasn’t acclimatized. So in order to keep warm during the long winter months, she started channeling her Latina passion into hot and steamy romance. Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Golden Pigtails VOTING INFO: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 3. The "Going Hands Free" Award for Erotic Audiobook Emma's Policy ON SALE NOW FOR ONLY $5.99 AT https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/ Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men, Book 1 by RuAnn Willhoe book 1 for FREE! (taboo version where it's the brothers) use code 4ZMSZ through 2/26 on Smashwords at Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 567: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 4, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David Myers Story Blurb: Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans. When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra. But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them. Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror. Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well! Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 566: For Men: Unlocking King Energy with Justin Nault, on Authentic Masculinity and Emotional Mastery, Helpful for Women, too. While this is more of a discussion for men, I really encourage women to listen, too, because this is the kind of conversation that can help everyone understand each other better. What does this have to do with sex? A lot! We must look at ourselves as a whole and starting with basic changes to see real improvement. Take it from Justin! Listen now! Redefining Masculinity: Join Ruan Willow as she dives deep into a transformative conversation with Justin Nault, the creator of King vs Prince, a groundbreaking program designed to help men evolve from ego-driven behaviors into authentic King energy. Justin, a leader in redefining modern masculinity, shares his insights on emotional mastery, radical self-acceptance, and the importance of authentic leadership. In this engaging episode, Ruan and Justin discuss the critical connection between physical health, sexual well being, and emotional intelligence. Justin emphasizes the need for men to address root causes of their issues rather than just treating symptoms, and he provides actionable advice on how to achieve true transformation through internal work. They explore the complexities of modern relationships, the impact of societal expectations on masculinity, and the necessity of open communication in partnerships. Justin's unique perspective on the balance of strength and vulnerability challenges the conventional notions of masculinity, encouraging listeners to embrace their authentic selves. Connect with Justin: TikTokInstagramFacebookYouTube Topic Timeline: 00:43 - Justin Knultt is the creator of King vs Prince, a masculinity coaching program 08:47 - Sex is compartmentalized everywhere we look 11:56 - Is mushroom coffee a hoax? 14:44 - Get men out of ego driven behavior in romantic relationships 19:34 - The biggest thing that we do with couples is communication 25:40 - Modern masculinity often confuses strength with dominance, which is problematic 31:11 - Most of what happens in 50 Shades is completely non-consensual 32:18 - When I was younger, I was resentful of men 38:07 - Being in a place where we can receive from our partner 40:26 - So what are some things that you tell men that can help them stop... 44:49 - Getting comfortable expressing the full range of emotions through honesty 46:19 - Your take on porn 50:26 - Our society has programmed women to think if he likes porn, he doesn't like me 56:12 - Tell your partner how you're feeling without words. It's such a simple fix 58:19 - There are masculine feminine polarity dynamics in every partnership Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 565: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 3, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David Myers Story Blurb: Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans. When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra. But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them. Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror. Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well! Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Episode 564: MMF Hucow Erotica Excerpt by Elsie Louis, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Don't forget to vote in the Golden Pigtails Smut Award! Ruan has three works nominated (Emma's Policy Audiobook, the Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, and Season's Teasings...more info below, keep scrolling!) About the Author Elsie Louis: Elsie adores milk and sex and nothing on earth beats combining the two. You can find her writing and daydreaming in her home on the dairy farm. Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). VOTE for the anthology in the Golden Pigtails Smut Awards by February 14, 2025 at https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/ Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Pleasure is your birthright! VOTING INFO: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/ The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology 1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology 2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 3. The "Going Hands Free" Award for Erotic Audiobook Emma's Policy ON SALE NOW FOR ONLY $5.99 AT https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/ Ruan's other new audiobook release In Scarlet's House on sale at $1.99 -$2.15 launch pricing (ends 2/5/25) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouseaudiobook OR join the exclusive level of the podcast to get this audiobook and all the padlocked episodes. (join with RSS FEED ON YOUR APP, in the email you get after signing up) Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 563: Empowering Voices: The Indie Bookstore Revolution with Nicole from Betty's Pages Bookstore. Join Ruan Willow in this enlightening episode as she chats with Nicole, the passionate owner of Betty's Pages bookstore in Lowell, Michigan. Nicole shares her journey of running an indie bookstore in a small town, where she strives to create an inclusive space that reflects diverse voices and stories. Discover how she curates her collection to ensure everyone in her community can see themselves represented in literature, and the challenges she faces along the way. Nicole also shares invaluable tips for Indie authors to get their physical books into bookstores, how they should approach covers, marketing, and what book buyers look for. This is invaluable advice for those choosing to be indie authors doing indie publishing. Get the super important inside scoop from someone who sells books for a living! In this episode, they discuss the impact of literature on identity, the importance of representation for LGBTQIA and BIPOC communities, and how indie bookstores are vital in promoting diverse narratives that big publishers often overlook. Nicole also reveals her exciting plans for a mobile bookstore. Connect with Nicole and her bookstore: www.bettiespages.com www.facebook.com/bettiespagesbookstore www.instagram.com/betties_pages www.tiktok.com/@bettiespages 06:43 I would get hateful comments on social media 11:16 Genres in your bookstore 16:21 Making covers for indie books 22:50 I'm loving seeing romance only bookstores 28:20 People who bash graphic novels on social media are just ignorant trolls 32:16 With audiobooks, people have an immediate reaction to voices 34:03 So what advice do you have for authors who are indie publishers 36:32 What do you think about the trend of indie publisher rising and getting more publicity 42:21 Books about love are often trashed because they're written by women 48:31 The Supreme Court has ruled that book banning is wrong 53:59 One thing Indie publishing has championed is content warnings at the beginning of books 57:19 readers like trigger warnings 58:50 weddings at your bookstore 01:01:09 Betty's bookstore is celebrating its 5th anniversary 01:03:50 Bookshop.org lets you support independent bookstores without using Amazon. Visit https://bookshop.org/ to buy books and support any indie bookstore of your choice anywhere in the country! They have physical books and now ebooks too! Independent bookstores list and tips on getting books into their stores: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/tips-for-indie-authors-to-help-get-their-books-into-independent-bookstores/ Ruan's bookshop dot org shop: https://bookshop.org/shop/ruanwillowpinkinfinitypublishing Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 562: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 2, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Written by Ruan Willow, Narrated by Ruan Willow and David Myers Story Blurb: Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans. When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra. But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them. Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ, elements of horror. Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well! Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Episode 561: Office Sex, Age Gap Older Woman Younger Man: The Hotwife and Her Intern by Grace Beaumont. Enjoy an erotic fiction excerpt! About the Author: Grace Beaumont loves writing stories about slutty older women getting exactly what they need from the hot young men who will worship they like they deserve—all while their husbands watch and enjoy, of course. She plays with themes of bondage, spanking, and denial, and the smallest soupçon of submission. Grace's Amazon page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Grace-Beaumont/author/B0CXHTVKC8 Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Romance Book Blast: 1,000 FREE ebooks … all different subgenres of romance at https://www.romancebooklovers.com/ My book for free is my full-length novel I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge under the erotica and erotic fiction section. This is a one-day event. Act now! Please enjoy and help out the authors by providing the world with your review! Thanks in advance! Enjoy! Ruan's latest audiobook releases: Never Say, Never Swing, Friends to Lovers https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neversayneverswingaudiobook Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors, Superheroes, music themes, time travel, sexy intimate relations https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 560: Breaking Taboos, Embracing Kink, and Pleasure with Dr. Nazanin Moali, aka Dr. Naz of the Sexology Podcast. Navigating Intimacy and Embracing Desire with Dr. Nazanin Moali. Join Ruan Willow as she engages in a captivating discussion with Dr. Naz, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, who is dedicated to helping individuals and couples achieve fulfilling sex lives. Dr. Naz shares her unique journey from post-revolution Iran to becoming a trusted expert in intimacy and relationships in Los Angeles. In this episode, they explore the complexities of kinks and fantasies, the challenges of sexless marriages, and the importance of communication in relationships. Dr. Naz emphasizes the significance of breaking down societal taboos surrounding sexuality, and how understanding our own desires can lead to deeper connections. Tune in for insights on fostering a more authentic love life and the transformative power of sexual self-discovery. Timeline: 00:21 - Dr. Naz is a clinical psychologist, Certified sex therapist 03:47 - Misconceptions in society about what kink means 06:06 - Going to sex therapy can be a good tool for some people 12:59 - Even when you're dating, experiment with saying no to non sexual things 20:02 - Many women blame society for not being able to experience an orgasm 26:26 - There's nothing wrong with enjoying porn that you don't actually want to do 27:53 - The orgasm gap gets misrepresented as a knowledge gap 35:24 - Do you feel that midlife couples have less frequent sex than younger generations 40:05 - Being transparent about sexual experiences with your therapist is very important 47:44 - Part of your work is doing sex education for people struggling with sexual health 50:16 - So do you find yourself ever suggesting sex toys for clients too 51:46 - Your podcast about science of sex and pleasure 53:40 - Many people find boredom is a big issue in their relationship 58:16 - What advice do you have for people looking to improve their sexuality 01:00:30 - I want people to keep in mind that whatever you like, you're not defective Quotes from Dr. Naz "There's nothing wrong with that. But you definitely need to cherish your desires." "Whatever you like, you're not defective. There’s a galaxy of people out there that are interested in that." Find out more: Nazanin Moali, Ph.D., CST (she/her/hers) Psychologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist www.oasis2care.com Creator and Host of Sexology Podcast http://www.sexologypodcast.com/ Facebook @oasis2carke IG @sexologypodcast Show notes created with the assistance of headliner app Ruan's latest audiobook releases: Never Say, Never Swing, Friends to Lovers https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neversayneverswingaudiobook Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors, Superheroes, music themes, time travel, sexy intimate relations https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/prot Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Episode 559: In Scarlet's House, Chapter 1, Dark Fantasy Erotica, A Dark Fantasy Fiction Series. Story Blurb: Scarlet had become a powerful witch. She also had beauty and brains, but what she was missing was a grand house and some wealth to her name, so she sought George. He blubbered his way through their marriage until he was as annoying as a bug, or an overripe houseguest. That didn’t take long. She had plans for him though, big plans. When Scarlet invited Arianna, her secret love, over to her new husband George's mansion, the girl's night she had promised turned out to be quite decadent indeed. It was complete with a much-needed reconnection for the women, a barely clothed muscle clad chef to ogle, and enough servants, with the promise of extra benefits, to satiate even Cleopatra. But it turns out having everything doesn't sit well with a dominant witch, until she's truly satisfied with everyone where she wants them. Tropes: Femdom dark fantasy & sci fi, forced proximity, shrinking and growing woman, magic, HEA, humiliation, degradation, explicit scenes and language, LGTBQ. Stay tuned for more of Mallory and Derek's story next week, and the next installment of "In Scarlet's House" as well! Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 558: Vampire Erotica Fiction Excerpt from Birthday Cake by author Johnna Dee, narrated by Ruan Willow. About the Author: Author Johnna Dee is a spicy fantasy romance writer. Initially, her creative journey began with poetry, where she honed her skills in crafting evocative and lyrical verses. As her passion for storytelling grew, she ventured into the realm of novels, weaving intricate plots and enchanting worlds that transport readers to extraordinary realms. Connect with Johnna: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BRW38RD7 http://www.linktr.ee/johnnadee About the Anthology: Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Announcements: Did you play spicy book bingo? It's over, but prices have been awarded! Find out more at https://www.intrigueverse.com/ Book raffle! By the upcoming Nomad’s Mobile Bookstore! That’s right! A bus bookstore! Featuring INDIE AUTHORS! Enter the raffle for just $5 for the potential to win 16 signed books by indie authors PLUS 5 more books! Must be in the US. Void where prohibited. Rules on the site. I have a book in this raffle too! Check out more details and for how to enter at this link. Hurry! It ends January 25, 2025! https://crowdfundr.com/perks/eUNB8?ref=ab_0N1yYvN1qoL0N1yYvN1qoL Find out more also on Instagram: http://instagram.com/nomadsmobilebookstore Ruan's new book: In Scarlet's House witch, magic, Femdom, MF, woman on woman love, sexuality, relationships, erotic horror and suspense novella. ARC https://booksirens.com/book/X6YLPQR/RWYTBAU Purchase: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouse Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 557: Exploring Sexual Self Discovery in Midlife and Kinky Queer Erotic Writing with Anna Sansom: Reclaiming Desire and Writing to Your Edges. Join Ruan Willow as she delves into an intimate conversation with Anna Sansom, a midlife, kinky queer writer whose work spans erotic fiction and personal essays on sexuality and relationships. Anna shares her journey through the transformative power of masturbation and how it became a spiritual practice that saved her life. Her latest anthology, "Sex Meets Life," is a collection of stories from 17 diverse authors exploring the intersection of sex and life's challenges. (affiliate link) Book "Sex Meets Life" https://amzn.to/4h10sta Discover Anna's insights on the importance of self-exploration, the reclamation of desire, and the significance of writing to your edges. This episode is a celebration of diversity, inclusivity, and the power of storytelling in understanding our sexual selves. Don't miss Anna's captivating reading from her anthology, a piece that will leave you reflecting on your own journey of sexual discovery. 🗣️ Quotes from Anna Sansom "Masturbation was a double act. My mind and body both had to be present for it to work." "I love shining a light on these things, you know, that's partly why I write." "Writing is a doorway in." "We create the things we want to see in the world." 🗣️ Quotes from Ruan Willow "We weren't given these sensations to not feel them." Dive into the world of erotic writing with Anna Sansom! Discover the power of spicy storytelling and self-publishing. Connect with Anna: Substack: https://annasansom.com.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anna_sansom_writer/ Website: https://annasansom.com/ Her erotic short stories have been published in anthologies and online, including Best Women’s Erotica of the Year, Volume 10 https://amzn.to/4hkkCxV ; The Big Book of Quickies https://amzn.to/3Wr1039; I Write the Body; and Take it Outside and she is a founding author of Theo Reads. As well as short stories, she has a lesbian, BDSM erotic novel called Coming Close, 2nd Edition https://amzn.to/40fQVY2 2024 Golden Pigtails Awards for Smut, Erotic books, and audiobooks. Nominate your favorite erotica books by January 21, 2025 at https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdzYvYr10OQY8Li0C82vf7q5Ve-Pg89mDHZ0UPoH_OdXj01wA/viewform Ruan's new audiobook "Protectors" with superheroes, time travel, action, and sex scenes at https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 556: Wild Magic MMMF Monster F*cker Erotica Excerpt by Rachel J Thompson. MEET THE AUTHOR: Rachel J Thompson is a writer of smutty and spooky fiction and is based in Los Angeles. She enjoys long walks through the back shelves of the video store, adding Taco Bell Diablo sauce to everything, and spends an inordinate amount of time trying to remove cat hair from her mostly black wardrobe. She can be found on Twitter and Instagram as @vhs_kitten Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Did you play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo? Turn in your game cards now! Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment! Enjoy the dark sci fi fantasy of a witch getting busy with three demon monsters! Emma's Policy, a new audiobook $7.99, a very taboo male domination, humiliation, degradation, blackmail, BDSM, manipulation, a VERY DARK kinks audiobook I just narrated and is now released. Find out more here: https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/ Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Season 5, Ep 555: Writing the Queer Experience: Mx Sinclair Sexsmith on Kink Storytelling, Erotica, and D/s Relationships. Meet the author! SINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Find more of their work at sugarbutch.net. Books: Best Lesbian Erotica (affiliate links, podcast may receive commissions on sales through this link. Thank you!) https://amzn.to/3PurEo0 "Your Year in Kink" Workbook https://amzn.to/3WdrOUH "The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica" https://amzn.to/424GWYb Quotes from Sinclair Sexsmith: "I can't stop writing. Like, I need to write to understand myself and understand the world." "I think writer's block is a myth." "I love the inner world stuff and I think writing is one of the best places to express that." "I want to encourage more queers and trans folks, and like kinky folks, to write down their stories." In this episode, Ruan and Sinclair discuss their shared passion for writing, the challenges of titling works, and the complexities of self-publishing in the erotica genre. They explore the nuances of writing about sex and intimacy, the importance of queer representation in literature, and the creative process behind crafting compelling narratives. Sinclair shares their thoughts on the intersection of writing and sex work, the drive to create authentic queer stories and queer fiction, the writing process, publishing, and the transformative power of literature. They also discuss the upcoming platform Theo Reads, which promises to be a haven for erotica and romance writers and readers alike. https://theoreads.com/ Find both Sinclair's and Ruan's writing on Theo Reads. Timeline: 02:41 Do you like the writing, the teaching or the creating 08:14 I feel pretty strongly that writing about sex is non sex work 10:09 There's still a lack of representation of queer sex in mainstream erotica 16:38 How are you with titles? 18:53 Pretty much everything I write has D/s 28:48 What are other are your favorite kinks to write 29:57 So when you're writing, do you start with your idea or do you 40:22 What is too personal to share, what is too vulnerable to share 43:39 Like separating the writing and publishing process is important 49:12 reading out loud is probably his number one editing tool 53:48 all about like your courses 56:54 This workbook is about reflecting on someone's kink life 01:01:42 What are you working on right now that you can share 01:02:59 When my dad died I was like, why am I not writing more 01:07:24 lgtbq and writing Coming out to your family can be tricky and painful headliner app Support the show Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Subscriber-only episode Send us a text Ep 554: Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Parties, Part 13, The Spicy Video Shoot: Bisexual Women Mallory and Maria Woman on Woman Delights. IN THE SERIES Mallory and Derek Attend Swinger Sex Parties. An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. Join the subscription level for $3 for access to all of these episodes: Want part 1? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15774437 Miss part 2: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15770723 Desire part 3? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15823847 Want part 4? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15865234 Crave part 5? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15905996 Need part 6? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/15951136 Seeking Part 7? Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16007180 Find Part 8: Listen here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16071482 Get Part 9: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16186972 Enjoy Part 10: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16209922 Thirsting for Part 11: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16303764 Savor Part 12: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16346569 Have fun listening to this erotic audio! Exploring erotica fiction and erotic romance are fabulous ways to exercise your self care time, to explore your sexuality and allow your brain to experience things you might not be able to do IRL. Enjoy the erotic fiction story and let the erotic romance of a couple expanding their sexuality in a sex positive way together satiate your own curiosities and fantasies. Give your sexual health and mental health a treat and have a listen! Stay tuned for part 14 coming next week! Enjoy the kinky sex and spicy romance fiction! Written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Image from Pexels. Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge