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Send us a text Episode 647: The Drink Master, excerpt, A Heterosexual Slow Burn Forced Proximity Erotic Spicy Romance Novella. A romance author relaxes at a lodge, which is exactly what she needs, even after a whole weekend away. More relaxation, yes please. But when lingers too long eyeing up the eye candy resort bartender, she gets snowbound. He's so charming and accommodating that he keeps feeding her drinks while a winter storm rages outside. After the ending of her marriage, she's ready for some ultra spicy fun and she soon finds out this surprising Pleasure Dom expertly mixes up a date better than any measly drink he's ever given her. Her delights abound as she accepts his invitation to dinner. An erotic audio, erotic fiction piece, a holiday romance story of forced proximity and being at the right place at the right time. Tropes: Dom/sub role play, consent is sexy, hookup, midlife romance, dirty talk, holiday, Christmas romance, hungry for pleasure, mutual pleasure is mutual bliss Ruan's Payhip store, get 25% OFF during the month of August of 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The Drink Master https://payhip.com/b/aWZwK Subscribe to the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full audiobook. Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 642: The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini. Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness. Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores: - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s) Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives. Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults 00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education 00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity 00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent 00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings 00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution 00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior 00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance 00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality 00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality 00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships 00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps 00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art 00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education 00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality 01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex Key Takeaways: • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent. • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners. • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality. Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed Her website TEDx talk Instagram TikTok YouTube Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 640: Hunted at Work for a Quickie with the Chef written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Dana, now single after a dull unsexy marriage, was working at an old folks home to make money for herself and her kids. She had started offering side jobs of taboo acts for the residents to earn extra money to help pay her way through nursing school. The Chef of the home, Cyrus, had found this out and wanted in on the action, but promised to pay her in pleasure instead. They'd fallen into a sexy game of hunter and prey, which they enacted on their work breaks, and found hidden places around the building to have sex. Having almost got caught, they were swift and smart about their sneaky rendezvous. Dana, who gets very turned on by Cyrus's filthy dirty talk, gets a surprise from him that leaves her excited for more of the sexy middle-aged chef. Enjoy this spicy erotic fiction story! Erotic storytelling to enjoy, grab your pleasure in what entertains you, it's your birthright to experience pleasure! Read this story on Theo Reads: https://www.theoreads.com/story/942fd676-7525-49ba-a3d8-9a5b81d6a5ad/view Dark erotic thriller suspense romance Beach House Views chapter 9 (read chapter 1 for FREE): https://www.theoreads.com/story/cf61c1a0-09b0-4e78-86e7-d39bd5140a44/view Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 639: Small Town Romance with Big Heart: Crafting Authentic Queer Stories with Britton Ashley. Dive into the charming world of Gunnison, Colorado, where author Britton Ashley crafts compelling small-town romances featuring authentic, diverse characters who feel like old friends. In this captivating conversation, Britton reveals how she weaves neurodivergent, queer, and chronically ill representation into her interconnected standalone stories, creating a rich tapestry of relatable experiences. From "Covered in You" to "Casual Sparks," the works showcase her dedication to authentic storytelling. The episode explores her evolution as a writer during the pandemic, balancing the challenges of character development with the need for genuine representation. Personal experiences, including the loss of a loved one, have deeply influenced her narrative approach, infusing her stories with raw emotion and genuine family dynamics. Whether you're a romance reader craving authentic representation or a writer navigating your creative journey, this episode offers valuable insights into the craft of storytelling. Tune in to discover how Britton transforms real-life experiences into compelling romance narratives that resonate with readers worldwide. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Interview with Author Britton Ashley 00:13:30 - Choosing Between Plotting and Pantsing 00:17:53 - Challenges of Writing and Marketing 00:20:00 - Tips for Editing and Proofreading 00:21:49 - Understanding Book Spice Levels 00:25:50 - Writing for Different Audiences 00:29:27 - Awkward Reintroduction and Lightning Strike excerpt 00:34:34 - Stormy Night Reflections 00:37:21 - Character Development in Writing 00:40:57 - Character Design and Book Development 00:44:09 - Writing Rituals and Creative Processes 00:51:30 - Indie Author Experience and Community 00:59:42 - Celebrating Feminine Energy and Creativity 01:02:29 - Growth in the Bookstagram Community 01:04:21 - Celebrating Human Connection at Events 01:06:22 - Exciting Upcoming Author Events 01:16:46 - Excitement for Booked Eau Claire Event 01:18:50 - Future Book Plans and Themes 01:24:01 - Writing a Regency Horror Novel Key Takeaways: • Smaller towns can provide a rich backdrop for diverse character development, challenging the stereotype that only big cities inspire complex stories. • The pandemic has significantly influenced creativity, prompting writers to find new ways to balance structure with spontaneity in their work. • Authenticity in portraying romance is crucial for meeting reader expectations, underscoring the challenges authors face in promotion and representation. Books (affiliate links): https://amzn.to/4o8FOLx https://amzn.to/4olGGga Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 637: A Previously Exclusive episode only for subscribers now out on the main podcast for all: Sex in the Morning Sun with My Daddy erotic scene with ASMR sounds. Delicious intimacy in the morning for this couple enjoying orgasms in the sun. Erotic romance entertainment arts for your enjoyment. Erotic romance as erotic fiction to enjoy alone or with your partner. This is a heterosexual story. Enjoy the hot sound filled ASMR storytelling! Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH PublicationsDon't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications NOW get 30% OFF a VIP ticket! http://www.eventbrite.com/e/951515667977/?discount=30 You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15.I'm on the narrator panel for this conference at 3 pm CST.New Releases and other sales! Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Beach House Views on Theo Reads now is live through chapter 9! This is my erotic suspense thriller romance, dark romance with lots of sex in it. Each chapter is only 0.99 cents. You won't believe what John Penn is about to do! Read the chapters exclusively here: Theo | Theo Romance Book Blast day! July 22 ONLY! Get my books I Dare You, an erotic rom com at this link:https://www.romancebooklovers.com/steamy Deception's Snare Romantasy https://www.romancebooklovers.com/fantasy ALL books: https://www.romancebooklovers.com/ Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 636: **Breaking Free from Traditional Masculinity: A Journey of Healing and Connection** Dive into a powerful conversation with Tyler, host of the masculinity podcast "STAG," as he shares his transformative journey from battling alcoholism in the people around him while growing up and in himself to creating meaningful spaces for male connection. This eye-opening episode explores how informal stag meetings are revolutionizing the way men approach emotional well-being and vulnerability. Key highlights: - Overcoming alcoholism and finding purpose through community building - Challenging toxic masculinity and embracing authentic male connections - The role of vulnerability in fostering genuine relationships - Navigating intimacy, trust, and personal boundaries - Understanding the difference between jealousy and healthy attachment - The importance of emotional connections over superficial encounters Through raw and honest dialogue, Tyler demonstrates how breaking free from traditional masculine norms can lead to profound personal growth and stronger communities. His story serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in our ability to be vulnerable and support one another. Ready to challenge your perspectives on modern masculinity? Listen to this transformative episode that's changing the conversation around male connection and emotional well-being. Timeline: 00:00:02 - Introduction to the Guest Podcast 00:02:35 - Exploring Modern Masculinity 00:06:38 - Respect and Vulnerability in Relationships 00:23:07 - Exploring Boundaries in Relationships 00:48:46 - Understanding Clit Boners 00:52:45 - Conversations on Pleasure and Generational Ideas 00:57:05 - Embracing Pleasure and Self-Acceptance 00:58:55 - Understanding Sexuality and Media Influence 01:15:13 - Exploring Pleasure and Spirituality 01:23:50 - Finding Balance in Self-Service 01:30:01 - Understanding Negative Reactions to Service 01:32:40 - Exploring Boundaries and Sexuality 01:55:13 - Enjoying Conversations and Podcast Insights Takeaways: • Tyler's journey through alcoholism led to the creation of stag meetings, highlighting the need for structured spaces for men to discuss emotional challenges openly. • The dialogue critiques traditional masculinity, arguing that vulnerability and authenticity are essential components of healthy male relationships. • The distinction between jealousy and envy is explored, emphasizing the importance of trust and understanding one's desires in fostering deeper emotional connections. STAG Podcast: http://stagpod.com/ Ruan's appearance on STAG: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ySEOlaLuQtZCYX6nJCEmD?si=JC7vwcZ3SWS_4HVfOKFEvA https://open.spotify.com/episode/6jGCcNSKckFA1ctC1cBQ8k?si=Mwec27LKTeSvQeu9ijYF Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 634: Hot Summer Sex Part 2: Five Point Stimulation to Euphoric Sexual Bliss. Anna and Dane continue their erotic adventure in the screen tent in their backyard. Dane has created a contraption to secure sex toys in to blow Anna's mind, and his ultimate goal is to give her five points of erogenous stimulation to help her reach orgasmic heights...but he gets to fulfill some fantasies, too, an oral pounding he's been wanting to try. Join in the summer heat as these two lovers expand their sexual boundaries and blow out the top of their sexual expectations, as they attain new heights of bliss. Enjoy the erotic romance, erotic fiction storytelling to spark your sexual wellbeing, enhance your sexual wellness, and peak your sexuality and your imagination in yummy adventures! It's a story about sexy relationships, reaching for and attaining orgasmic delights. It's an erotica storytelling story! Listen to part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17466395 Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 633: A Journey to Sexual Liberation! Join us! Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Summary: Discover how Lauren Elise Rogers transformed from a restrictive Bible Belt upbringing to become a certified holistic sexuality educator helping others reclaim their sexual autonomy. This powerful episode explores the intersection of faith, sexuality, pleasure, and personal empowerment. Lauren shares her compelling journey through divorce and self-discovery, highlighting how early religious teachings can shape our relationship with intimacy. Through her work as an intimacy coach, she guides clients in untangling inherited beliefs about sexuality while maintaining their spiritual connections. Key highlights: - Exploring the contradiction between religious celebration and condemnation of sexuality - Understanding erotic plasticity and belief systems - Identifying and "weeding out" limiting beliefs from different life stages - The importance of body wisdom in setting boundaries - Reframing pleasure and consent in intimate relationships Ready to challenge your own beliefs about sexuality and spirituality? Listen to this transformative episode that bridges the gap between faith and sexual empowerment. Timeline: 00:00:02 - Exploring Sexual Wellness and Education, intimacy 00:03:07 - Exploring Sexuality and Religious Beliefs 00:07:25 - Exploring Faith and Spiritual Practices 00:09:41 - Embracing Pleasure and Human Experience 00:12:21 - Breaking Free from Negative Beliefs 00:26:17 - The Importance of Negotiating Pleasure 00:35:16 - Exploring the Roots of Sexuality 00:48:00 - Understanding Childhood Sexual Exploration 00:50:58 - Teaching Kids About Healthy Sexuality 00:53:33 - Body Image and Tampon Myths 00:54:53 - Questioning Beliefs About Sex and Consent 00:57:25 - Exploring Safe Consensual Sex Key Takeaways: • Lauren transformed her life from a restrictive background in Virginia's Bible Belt to embracing a pleasure-centered approach to intimacy, which challenges conventional religious teachings. • Her journey included overcoming early marital struggles and a divorce, showcasing that personal growth can stem from significant life changes. • Lauren emphasizes the importance of examining and redefining ingrained beliefs about relationships and self-worth to foster empowerment and self-awareness. Connect with Lauren: Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@partnershippodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 631: The Hot Summer Sex Series has begun with this first story Hot Summer Sex: Seduction! An erotic romance story in the deep dark of night when the air is warm, the feels are mystically sensual, and the juicy climaxes abound! Dane bought a screen tent and surprises Anna with a seduction scene in it... but no clothes allowed for her...it's complete with a comfy air mattress, a basket of toys, drinks, and enough lanterns to spark even more magic than she can handle. The nighttime steaminess is off the charts when Dane edges Anna along by arousing her, but moving slow, even though he's more than ready to dive into pleasure, he wants her desperate and begging, and well-climaxed, before he coasts in. An erotic storytelling adventure for the heat of summer! More hot, sexy, intense summer intimate scenes to come! Take a healthy sexual wellness break and listen to this delicious erotic audio short story. More to come! Enjoy the entertainment! Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Payhip store: 25% OFF on Payhip through 7/15/2025 4:15 PM https://payhip.com/b/gA5M2 ARC: https://booksirens.com/author/H1HH6OK/BQMGP2J Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 630: # Finding Love Through Kink: A Revolutionary Dating App Ever wondered if your BDSM preferences could lead you to your perfect match? Meet Pieter, the innovative CEO who turned personal setbacks into a groundbreaking dating platform that matches users based on their BDSM test compatibility scores. This fascinating episode explores how a unique dating app is revolutionizing the way people connect by prioritizing sexual compatibility before diving into traditional dating metrics. Peter shares his journey from heartbreak to breakthrough, explaining how his platform helps users find meaningful connections through shared intimate preferences. The conversation delves into the evolution of the BDSM test as a tool for self-discovery, the importance of open communication in alternative relationships, and how understanding one's desires can lead to more fulfilling partnerships. From creative signaling methods to navigating cultural differences, this episode offers valuable insights into modern dating dynamics. Whether you're curious about alternative relationship styles or seeking a more authentic way to connect, this episode challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective on finding love. 🎧 Listen now to discover how understanding your intimate preferences could be the key to finding your perfect match. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah 00:00:02 - Connecting Through BDSM Compatibility 00:04:32 - Revolutionizing Dating App Compatibility 00:08:58 - Understanding Sexual Compatibility in Relationships 00:14:35 - Understanding the BDSM Test Categories 00:16:45 - Growth of the BDSM Test 00:21:00 - Understanding Language Barriers and Relationships 00:24:40 - Understanding Submissive Dynamics 00:29:18 - Exploring Communication in Relationships 00:35:00 - Exploring BDSM and Sexual Compatibility 00:38:25 - Understanding acronyms in BDSM and Kink 00:46:24 - Importance of Communication and Consent 00:52:45 - Understanding Consensual Non-Consent 00:57:07 - Safety Signals in BDSM Practices 01:03:08 - Upcoming Features for the App Key Takeaways: • The BeeDee dating app prioritizes BDSM compatibility as a foundation for meaningful relationships while also challenging traditional dating norms. • The BDSM test has evolved into a crucial tool for self-discovery, aiding individuals in understanding their desires and preferences. • The emphasis on clear communication, signals, and introspection can significantly enhance relationship dynamics, even for those outside the BDSM community. Summary Cleanvoice ai Ruan's books on Smashwords https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 628: Storm Sex An Erotic Improv Story, Ruan spins a story off the top of her head as she records...oh the deliciousness of an unexpected unscripted night at home, forced proximity to the basement to hide out and be safe from the storm raging outside! Mike and Felicia both gather supplies to weather the storm in the basement closet, and things are bound to get spicy when she grabs her new sex toy from the charger on her way to the basement! Enjoy the spontaneous sex of this couple, the edging, the fun power play sex game of orgasm control, and of the course, the mutual satiation! A night to never forget! Enjoy this erotic romance, a little spicy erotica story about how to take advantage of a bad situation and turn it into sexy fun times! Great erotic fiction as an erotic audio to peak your libido, stir ideas in you, and satiate your mental health and your sexual health. Making relationships fun with impromptu sex.. oh hell yes please! Delicious ultra spicy storytelling! She enjoyed it, she hopes you do too! Get 25% off (and use code 1EHV0SROLG) now through July 15, 2025 at Ruan's New Payhip store! Including on her new releases Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties and The Drink Master: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The books are also available on online sellers including: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties The Drink Master: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thedrinkmaster Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 627: **Breaking Down Barriers in Sexual Health Education** Guest: Holly Eckelberger (she/her) is a public health expert, sex educator, and passionate advocate for sexual and reproductive justice. With over 15 years of experience, she’s led community education programs, developed inclusive sexual health curricula, and is a fierce community activist. Holly is also the co-founder of the Rochester Sexual and Reproductive Justice Task Force and the host of Meet Me at the Spot Podcast, where she dives into real talk about sex, pleasure, and justice. She brings a unique blend of professional insight and sex-positive enthusiasm to every conversation. Dive into a powerful conversation with Holly, where she transforms from health teacher to community sex educator and reproductive justice advocate. From viral TikTok content to launching a groundbreaking podcast, Holly shares how authentic conversations about sexual health can create meaningful change. The episode explores critical gaps in K-12 sex education, challenging traditional approaches and highlighting the urgent need for comprehensive, accurate information. Holly discusses how her work with the Rochester Sexual and Reproductive Justice Task Force is reshaping conversations around sexual health and education. Key highlights: - Journey from classroom teaching to community advocacy - Impact of social media in sexual health education - Importance of representation in LGBTQ+ sexual health - Role of podcasting in breaking taboos - Challenges of modern sex education Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual health education and learn how one voice can make a difference? Listen to this eye-opening episode that bridges the gap between education and authentic conversation. Tune in now to join this crucial conversation about reshaping sexual health education for future generations. Chapters timeline: 00:00:00 - Passion for Sexual Health Education 00:03:06 - Journey in Sexual Health Education 00:08:56 - Teaching Kids About Consent and Relationships 00:13:24 - Importance of Comprehensive Sex Education 00:15:31 - Understanding the Reality of Pornography 00:17:54 - Understanding Sexuality and Pornography 00:26:54 - Representation and Acceptance in Society 00:34:59 - The Power of Storytelling and Censorship 00:39:35 - Activism Through Joyful Existence 00:46:58 - Normalizing Body Conversations with Children 00:52:41 - Reclaiming Female Pleasure Conversations Key takeaways: • Comprehensive sex education is often misunderstood and is crucial for empowering youth, yet it remains insufficiently implemented in many schools. • The influence of porn is detrimental to young people's understanding of healthy relationships and sexuality, highlighting the need for better educational resources. • Indie publishing plays a vital role in amplifying diverse voices and perspectives, contributing to more inclusive discussions about sexuality and identity. Connect with Holly: Website: thatsexeducator.com Listen: https://meetmeatthespot.buzzsprout.co Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

Send us a text Ep 625: Beach House Views Erotica Excerpt, Breeding written by podcast host and author Ruan Willow. Get my erotic suspense thriller novel on Theo Reads! Chapters 1 through 7 are now live and each week a new chapter will release. On Theo Reads you can search for EXACTLY what you want by searching by trope, kink, gender, orientation, spice level, and sub-genre. Read Beach House Views Chapter 1 for Free: https://www.theoreads.com/story/71ba59ce-badd-4472-90af-b2d324c6a332/view Read Chapter 2: https://www.theoreads.com/story/f54de852-a529-4ee5-9764-21ea3363ae26/view TROPES of Beach House Views: *Dark Romance *Erotic *Thriller *Suspense *Stalker *Breeding *Open Door High spice\Heterosexual couple, she’s bicurious Beach House Views book blurb: Juniper and Bridge find their dream house. It's on the beach! The house is eerily perfect, and the couple can't help but be drawn to its charm and the allure of its famous previous owner. The house seems to be the perfect place for them to start a new chapter in their lives and maybe make a top-notch nursery for that baby they've so desperately been trying for. During their tour, Juniper finds a mysterious object in the kitchen, a hidden key in an odd place, hinting that there may be more to this fantasy home than meets the eye. After they settle in to the house, mysteries pop up, but they dismiss them as meaningless, that is until they can't deny something odd, and devious, could be going on with the house. They continue to enjoy each other though, on their baby making breeding spree, trying out every room in their quest to create new life. When things start to go south, they find the beach views they didn't want, and the danger of the mysterious occurrences becomes villainous. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 624: Breaking down barriers to Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Jessica Yih, MD, a urologist aka drsexandsperm on social media who is an Assistant Professor at the Department of Urology, Director of Women's Sexual Health and Male Infertility at the University of California, Irvine. She shares all her insights about the clitoris, female sexuality, and the new direction medicine is taking in finally paying more attention to women's sexual organs, pleasure, anatomy, function, and illness. Summary: Discover the Hidden Power of the Clitoris and a Revolutionary Look at Women's Sexual Health Join Dr. Jessica Yih (aka drsexandsperm on social media), a pioneering urologist, as she unveils groundbreaking insights about female sexual health and anatomy. Did you know the clitoris contains an astounding 10,000 nerve endings and is much larger than commonly believed? This eye-opening episode challenges traditional perspectives and breaks down barriers in women's sexual health education. Dr. Yih hares her personal journey in the male-dominated field of urology and discusses how limited medical training on women's sexual health inspired her to become an advocate for change. The conversation explores crucial topics including: - The complex anatomy and size of the clitoris - Breaking down shame and cultural taboos - Understanding sexual health across different life stages - The impact of hormonal changes on sexual wellness - Barriers in testosterone therapy for women and the potentially harmful impacts of the oral contraceptive pill in damaging a woman's ability to have pleasure with sex This frank and informative discussion illuminates the importance of self-discovery and understanding your body without shame. Whether you're curious about your own anatomy or seeking to enhance your sexual wellbeing, this episode offers valuable insights that could transform your perspective on female sexuality. Ready to revolutionize your understanding of women's sexual health? Timeline: 00:01:57 - Women's Sexual Health Awareness 00:05:21 - Understanding the Clitoris Anatomy 00:10:45 - Anatomy and Arousal 00:17:31 - Exploring Sensuality and Orgasms 00:21:16 - Understanding Sexual Health and Pleasure 00:23:22 - Impact of Aging on Sexuality 00:27:27 - Understanding Women's Hormonal Changes & Hormone Therapy Autonomy 00:35:06 - Hormone Therapy Benefits for Women 00:38:52 - Understanding Vestibule Pain and Testosterone 00:42:01 - Understanding Hormonal Vestibulodynia 00:44:46 - Impact of Oral Contraceptives on Health 00:47:35 - Testosterone Therapy and Patient Advocacy 00:52:55 - Advocating for Sexual Health Awareness 00:55:28 - Exploring Sexual Trauma Healing Key Takeaways Dr. Yih https://linktr.ee/drsexandsperm • There is a significant lack of education about female anatomy, particularly the clitoris, which contributes to societal shame surrounding female sexuality. • Understanding one's body, including embracing self-exploration, is essential for enhancing pleasure and mental health, regardless of age. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 622: Getting a surprise mystery fantasy in a box delivery is about the most delicious, sexy, and hot date night prep imaginable! The erotic romance hits the mark in this erotica fiction story where the couple enjoys trying out new toys, leadership/submission in restraints and orgasm control, plus a new sheer sensual outfit from a box with sexy contents. The guidance of the box, their deluge into dominance and submission role playing, and the yummy surprises have them basting in their libidos and marinating in their sexual juices! Enjoy your sexuality to the max on date night and check this out!!!!! I've personally tried out a similar box and it was an incredible experience! It's top notch super sexy and immersive in the best most juicy ways possible! The guidance the kit provides will grow trust in relationships while giving everyone involved a fun, sexy, satisfying experience! Five stars times a million! This story was sponsored by The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! Check out all the sexy options (affiliate link, this podcast may receive a commission on boxes purchased) https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423 https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2152196/26423 Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it! Dive in for self care, partner care, and mutual pleasure today and every day! Hey, why not get kinky? You might like it! Enjoy this erotic audio. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep: 621, The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch with Jake (Jakub Tyl) Discover how synchronized breathing and emotional presence can transform intimate relationships in ways you never imagined. In this fascinating episode, professional bodyworker Jake shares his unique perspective on the intersection of touch, emotion, and healing, particularly in women's experiences. Through his four years of specialized practice in erotic, tantric, and BDSM massage, Jake reveals how authentic intimacy transcends technical expertise. He emphasizes that true connection happens when partners are fully present and attuned to each other's emotional states. Key highlights: - The transformative power of therapeutic touch - How body awareness leads to better relationship choices - Breaking through emotional barriers from past relationships - The importance of presence and trust in intimate connections - Using synchronized breathing to deepen emotional bonds Ready to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy and emotional connection? Listen to this eye-opening episode that challenges conventional wisdom about relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to explore how deep emotional presence can transform your approach to intimacy and relationships. Find out more about Jake: https://www.dotekerota.com/hole On Instagram @dotek.erota Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction to Jake's Unique Profession 00:02:06 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Connection 00:10:21 - Connecting with Your Body and Emotions 00:24:38 - Challenges of Intimacy in Relationships 00:26:58 - Emotional Connection in Intimacy 00:52:28 - Understanding Touch and Connection 00:58:14 - Overcoming Intimacy Expectations 01:03:55 - Intimacy Beyond Technique 01:14:26 - Enjoying the Present Moment in Intimacy 01:18:02 - Understanding Sensual BDSM Dynamics 01:22:52 - Balancing Aggression and Tenderness in BDSM 01:25:27 - Building Trust in Dominance 01:32:08 - Embracing Dominance and Learning Key Takeaways: • The emphasis on synchronized breathing as a tool for fostering deeper intimacy is often overlooked in traditional relationship discussions. • Jake highlights that emotional breakthroughs through intimacy can redefine women's boundaries and desires, showcasing a transformative aspect of touch. • The podcast advocates for emotional engagement over mechanical techniques, suggesting that true connection requires presence and trust rather than just physical actions. Sexual health is a part of mental health, don't ignore it. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Episode 619: Age Gap Tea Bagging and Oral, Erotica Excerpt from Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, Book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes: erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Get the book (releasing July 1, 2025): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get all the chapters by subscribing for $3. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here. After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text **From Banking to Beautiful Moments: A Photographer's Journey of Healing** Discover how "The Fiddler of Light," a former banker turned photographer and visual artist, transformed personal struggles into powerful artistic expression. After experiencing burnout, Greg found salvation through his camera lens, evolving from train photography to creating intimate portraits that celebrate human vulnerability and beauty, including the art of nude photography. This episode delves deep into the delicate art of nude photography, exploring how authentic connections and trust create transformative experiences for both photographer and subject, as well as the viewer of the photos. Greg shares compelling insights about cultural differences between European and American approaches to nudity, while emphasizing the crucial distinction between artistic expression and sexuality. Most powerfully, Greg reveals how photography became his healing tool, helping not only himself but also his subjects embrace self-acceptance and recognize their unique beauty. Through his lens, he's helped individuals with personal struggles, including those battling illness and self-image issues, find new perspectives on their bodies and themselves. Ready to explore the intersection of art, healing, and human connection? Listen to this powerful episode about finding light in unexpected places. 00:00:00 - Introducing Photographer Greg from Germany 00:01:04 - From Banking to Photography Journey, mental health 00:03:57 - Journey from Burnout to Photography 00:06:36 - Importance of Human Connection in Photography 00:08:44 - Rediscovering Self-Confidence Through Photography 00:10:55 - Creating Beauty Through Photography 00:13:35 - Understanding Nude Photography Motivations 00:15:49 - Nudity vs. Sexuality Debate 00:16:52 - Photography and Nudity in Different Cultures 00:19:22 - Nude Photography and Artistic Boundaries 00:23:49 - Capturing Trust and Inspiration in Photography 00:26:24 - Embracing Sensuality and Self-Love 00:29:29 - Future Aspirations in Photography 00:32:40 - Transformative Journey Through Art 00:37:25 - Support Through Photography and Art • Greg's transition from an uninteresting, unmotivating banking career to the joys and delights of photography was driven by a personal burnout, illustrating the significant impact of mental health on career choices. • He emphasizes the critical role of consent and comfort in nude photography, which challenges conventional restrictive views on this artistic genre, and breaks down the taboos of nude pictures while highlighting the artistic beauty and celebratory views of the body as a work of natural art. • Greg views photography not just as a visual medium, but as a form of communication and connection that promotes self-acceptance and reevaluates societal norms surrounding nudity. Nudity is not always sexual, it can be sensual, and he champions that mantra in his photography work. Find out more about The Fiddler of Light: https://www.fiddler-of-light.de/ Summary by Cleanvoice. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Ep 616: Sex on the Beach, Excerpt from The Siren Who Couldn't Sing, An Open Door Erotic Romantasy Tale. Get book 1, Wingless Hunger, in audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshungeraudiobook Buy the Book The Siren Who Couldn't Sing: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing Get all four novellas in Deception's Snare: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare eBooks are also currently available in Kindle Unlimited (subject to change). Also available in paperback. The Open Door Romantasy Continues from Wingless Hunger to The Siren Who Couldn't Sing (book 2 in the series) ... Gabriella finds herself nude on the beach and reaching out for her hero again. Story blurb: Gabriella finally found what she was looking for. As a fairy-siren-human, she was with the love of her life, a human male named Leif. Gabriella and Leif settled into a happy life, but everything changes when Gabriella is summoned back to the sea. The siren in her makes her ocean bound journey smooth, that is until an unseen force starts messing with the couple and splits them up. While they feel like powerless pawns in a chess game as their hearts and bodies get wrenched from each other, all they want is their happily ever after, if only the one in power will allow that to happen. Enjoy book 2 in the Arching Hunger Series, a spicy open-door HEA Romantasy, with explicit intimate scenes, forced proximity, devotion, love, and a shrinking & growing woman. This a relationship driven romance first fantasy saga, where the relationship is topmost. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 615: Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey of Sexual Exploration After 60. Listen to Greg's personal story! Topics include personal stories of: Finding Love and Sexual Liberation After 60 Discover how one man's unexpected connection with a younger partner revolutionized his understanding of intimacy and sexuality in his golden years. Greg's story challenges conventional wisdom about age and desire, proving it's never too late for transformative relationships. Through candid conversations, Greg shares his journey from a sexually restrictive marriage to embracing open communication and exploration with a new partner. His experience highlights the profound impact of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries, demonstrating how breaking free from societal constraints can lead to unprecedented personal growth. Key highlights: - Transitioning from a closed-off marriage to an open, communicative relationship - Exploring new dimensions of intimacy with a younger partner - Breaking age-related stereotypes about sexuality - The importance of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries - Finding hope and renewal in later-life relationships This powerful episode offers inspiration and practical insights for anyone questioning their sexual future, regardless of age. Listen now to discover how embracing vulnerability and openness can lead to extraordinary connections at any stage of life. 🎧 Tune in to hear Greg's full story and learn why it's never too late to rewrite your relationship narrative. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sexuality After 60: A Personal Journey 00:03:46 - Importance of Open Sexual Communication 00:06:11 - Challenges in Marital Communication 00:08:55 - Exploring New Sexual Experiences 00:10:22 - Exploring Sex Toys Together 00:14:14 - Preparing for Future Relationships 00:17:15 - Discovering Female Sensuality 00:19:00 - Exploring Sensuality and Intimacy 00:22:02 - Overcoming Shame in Relationships 00:25:58 - Exploring Female Sexuality and Orgasms 00:28:40 - Exploring Sexual Boundaries and Preferences 00:30:47 - Exploring New Experiences Together 00:32:23 - Open Communication in Relationships 00:34:20 - Unexpected Honey Experience 00:35:59 - Importance of Communication in Relationships Summary: Cleanvoice Support the show Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge NO AI TRAINING