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Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this? Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership. www.masterclass.com/cocktales Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our guest @bossbarbie1 https://www.sierraluchien.com/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges. Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places. The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean @bossbarbie1 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space. Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness. Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire. Lume Deodorant Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod VIIA Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check Us Out Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The Quiz Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Ever wonder what it's like to veer from a strict diet and discover the crispy joy of bacon for the first time? Join us as we navigate the colorful world of Costa Rican culture and the unexpected delights it holds. Medinah Monroe returns from a transformative Costa Rican sabbatical, sharing her hot yoga retreat adventures with Paradise and Vibe amidst lush landscapes and vibrant wildlife. From savoring bacon to forming powerful connections, Medina's stories are filled with laughter and insight, highlighting the magic of personal growth when surrounded by nature's beauty. As the excitement of engagements and weddings fills the air, we revel in the humorous chaos of secret proposals and viral moments. Our conversations are peppered with stories of extravagant celebrations, like a legendary Galentine's Day party, where themed pajamas and a chef-prepared menu set the stage for unforgettable memories. Whether sharing a laugh over a walking pad mishap or spotting celebrities at the nail salon, the importance of staying connected and celebrating all forms of love remains a central theme. The episode also takes us on thrilling journeys of personal and professional growth. From reminiscing about Costa Rican surfing lessons to planning an upcoming retreat with surprise gifts, the anticipation is palpable as we embrace new adventures and connections. A venture into the world of celebrity interviews unveils the complexities of authenticity and content creation. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home? Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week Dr. Jameeka Banks captivates us with her incredible story of transformation from incarceration to becoming a beacon of hope and inspiration for many. Her journey reveals the profound impact of the law of attraction and self-care, all while maintaining a strong relationship with God. In our conversation, she emphasizes recognizing relationship red flags and challenges the notion of excusing poor character under the guise of grace. Together, we get into the joys of embracing personal growth, living life to the fullest, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking free from toxic patterns. Jameeka shares her career journey which has been fueled by her desire to break stereotypes and achieve her childhood dreams. As we toast to ambition and meaningful relationships, we highlight the power of connecting with other women and following one’s dreams despite societal constraints. Our discussion flows through intriguing explorations of relationships and gender roles, sprinkled with humor and candid insights into the irrationality of obsessive behaviors and unexpected places for expressing affection. We also discuss the vital role of self-reflection and setting boundaries in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships or reflecting on the impact of a challenging childhood, we emphasize the importance of effective communication, self-love, and forgiveness. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, and with a little cocktail, or a big one, we invite listeners to recognize and heal toxic patterns, prioritize self-awareness, and ultimately transform adversity into positive change. Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.com Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com This week's cocktail recipe: The Working Woman Ingredients: Ice, cognac, lemon juice, simple syrup, bitters, sparkling wine, lemon peel Instructions: In a cocktail shaker add the ice, cognac, lemon juice, bitters & simple syrup. Secure the lid and shake vigorously until the outside of the shaker is frosty and cold. Strain the cocktail into a coupe glass and finish with the sparkling wine and lemon peel. Serve. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Get ready for a cocktail of wit, wisdom, and whimsical fantasies as we welcome the insightful Ibbie, a seasoned dating coach and licensed therapist, who takes us from her bartending days to mastering the complexities of modern romance. Our episode kicks off with the "Situationship" cocktail, perfect for exploring the intricate dance of love languages and relationship choices. From the eternal question of choosing between wealth and availability to navigating hair styling dilemmas for an exciting Curacao trip, we promise a rollercoaster of engaging discussions and personal anecdotes. The fun doesn't stop there! You might find yourself laughing out loud as we uncover quirky sexual fantasies involving unlikely icons like Dr. Phil and Steve Harvey, alongside a nostalgic nod to the legendary talk shows of yesteryear. We also dive into the world of attachment styles, blending humor with heartfelt stories about the nuances of relationships. Whether it’s through the eyes of a ‘runaway bride’ or a discussion on childhood experiences shaping our adult connections, we offer both laughter and insight. As we wind down, we address the poignant challenges of grief in relationships, offering advice to listeners who might be supporting a partner through tough times. Through candid anecdotes, we highlight the importance of patience and understanding in these delicate moments. Our exploration of dating, self-awareness, and the balance of delusion will leave you pondering the intricacies of love and connection. With Ibi's expert insights and our relatable stories, this episode promises a tapestry of humor, heartfelt exploration, and plenty of food for thought. Interested in being a guest? Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- January's Book- The Arrangement https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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This episode isn't just about new year resolutions; it's about celebrating small victories and the courage to face life's unexpected challenges. We highlight how overcoming fear and embracing change can lead to profound personal growth. Weird sex heads to the VA with a scandalous tale from a VA facility, reminding us all to "SAY NO TO COWORKERS!" The teachings from the Women Evolve conference and insights from Abraham Hicks offer valuable perspectives on spiritual growth, relationships, and the power of self-awareness for Medinah. For Kiki, looking forward to all the new opportunities that she can't wait to announce and her sex drive has finally come back. Listen to the full episode to get an OG CockTale...it's been 84 years lol! We also tackle the emotional complexities of relationships, particularly understanding and appreciating men's emotional needs. Navigating the intricacies of dating someone with children, we emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits. With a blend of humor and authenticity, we share stories of personal misadventures, from high love gummies to unexpected romantic encounters. As we move forward into the new year, we encourage our listeners to embrace personal evolution with optimism and gratitude, always supporting loved ones through life's unpredictable moments. Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Koereylle from the "Girl Stop Playing" podcast stops by to share her inspiring journey from a workaholic mindset to one of personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into her transition from the "Confessions of a Workaholic" podcast and how her past venture, the Single Wives Club, led her to her husband and a happier marriage. Koereylle offers valuable insights into balancing career ambitions with personal goals, and we explore how meaningful conversations can be sparked using a fun game called "I'm Curious to Know." Get ready for some festive cheer as we whip up a Snow Globe Margarita that dazzles both in taste and presentation. Perfect for the holiday season, this cocktail combines white cranberry juice, lime juice, tequila, and a sprinkle of edible glitter, served whimsically in a clear, fillable ornament. For those who prefer a booze-free version, sparkling water does the trick. The addition of a rosemary sprig brings a festive nod to Christmas trees, ensuring your holiday gatherings are both merry and bright. We navigate a multitude of relationship dynamics, from traditional gender roles and the etiquette of texting exes during the holidays, to the art of regifting and the complexities of non-committed relationships. Listen in for lively discussions on everything from the ethics of re-gifting to the spicy tales of holiday party escapades. The episode wraps up with a heartwarming engagement story set against the early pandemic's backdrop, illustrating love's resilience and creativity. Whether you're here for the cocktails or the candid chats, there's something to engage everyone. Follow Us! @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @koereyelle Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Join us as we kick off with the Red Ribbon Refresher, a mocktail recipe that's perfect for anyone not wanting to wake up with a hangover. Our conversation flows through the quirks of communication and social media, peppered with the joy of sisterhood and the ongoing saga of allergies. TikTok, you're next on our exploration list, and we might just need some help keeping up with the trends! Reality TV aficionados, this one's for you. We express a longing for the glamorous days of reality TV's past and brainstorm fresh concepts that could shake up today's scene. From the working women series to influencer content battles, we offer a playful peek into potential new shows, speculating on celebrity participants like Britney Renner. With casting secrets and show premises that leave jaws dropping, the discussion meanders through the behind-the-scenes chaos, painting a vivid picture of the reality TV world that’s rarely seen by the public eye. Navigating the minefield of modern relationships? We've got insights ranging from dating in your twenties to the delicate dance of maintaining friendships with children when adult relationships falter. Whether it's the expectations of stay-at-home partnerships, the allure and pitfalls of social media romance, or the ethical dilemmas within prison romances, our reflections are both humorous and heartfelt. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration that encourages intentionality and self-discovery, all wrapped up in engaging storytelling and genuine camaraderie. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try Soaking Wet! Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week we discuess weird kinks, family time, and answer an interesting listener email about her man judging and slut shaming her! Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! From 12/13-12/18 get Free 2-Day Shipping on orders $150+ and an additional 10% off when using our code COCKTALES10 https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skincare-sets-1?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=122024_HolidayEVG_COCKTALES Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- December's Book- The Boyfriend https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

We dive into personal reflections this week, underscoring the value of patience and thankfulness for life's little triumphs. These moments serve as a reminder of the importance of embracing who we are and the journey we've embarked on. We wrap things up with an exploration of vulnerability in the digital age, examining the courage it takes to share one's struggles while maintaining a sense of privacy. Insights on managing anxiety and self-perception during high-pressure situations pave the way for tales of romantic entanglements and self-empowerment. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Over 2 Million Butts Love TUSHY. Save BIG at https://hellotushy.com/cocktales Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What happens when you blend coconut rum, lime juice, lavender syrup, and Prosecco Rosé? You get the delicious Velvet Sunset cocktail, a perfect companion for our lively chat with Veronica Torres, an Atlanta-based lash tech and avid listener of our show. Veronica shares her inspiring journey from North Carolina to Atlanta while we sip our way through her story and the serendipity of discovering our podcast through her sister. Her vibrant personality and unique perspective make this listener appreciation episode one for the books, as we bond over shared memes and laughter. Relationships are a complex dance of boundaries and love languages, and we're not shying away from the tough topics. We dive into the importance of understanding one's love language and how it evolves over time, discussing how to strike a balance between quality time and personal space with your partner. From weekend getaways to heart-to-heart conversations, we explore how road trips and adventures can either strengthen or challenge bonds, offering a unique lens on the ever-changing nature of love and connection. From the varied world of cultural cuisines to the quirks of personal grooming, this episode is a colorful tapestry of experiences and insights. We tackle topics like unusual fetishes and the journey of self-love and validation, emphasizing the importance of open communication in all relationships. With personal stories of overcoming trauma and breaking negative cycles for the sake of our children, we encourage listeners to focus on building supportive communities and setting positive examples. Join us for a heartfelt conversation packed with laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of love. Try out OSEA and use code COCKTALES: https://oseamalibu.com/pages/black-friday-2024?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=112024_BFCM_CocktalesDirtyDiscussion Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @timelessacademyatl Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Renowned author Elizabeth Gilbert, famously known for "Eat, Pray, Love," graces our live studio audience with her vibrant presence. The episode kicks off with a mocktail inspired by her iconic book, setting the stage for a heartfelt conversation about courage and personal growth. Elizabeth's stories from transformative wellness retreats in dreamy locales and her own journey to discovering more about herself from how she loves, to how her behavior in love lead to her realization of her addiction. Her story inspires us to embrace new experiences with open arms and hearts. We journey through the tangled web of relationships, exploring everything from soul ties and love addiction to the trials of gift-giving and unexpected life changes. Our discussion uncovers the joys and pains of seeking validation, the societal imbalances in relationships, and the profound impact of spirituality and recovery in overcoming addiction. Personal anecdotes and insightful reflections reveal the complex dance between love, addiction, and personal transformation, highlighting the importance of inner strength and self-respect. The episode concludes with a focus on healing practices, both spiritual and practical. Elizabeth shares her ongoing passion for travel and introduces her "Letters from Love" series, encouraging us to engage with ourselves through self-written love letters. A heartfelt farewell to our audience, sprinkled with gratitude and warmth, wraps up this enlightening episode. Join us for a ride through laughter, introspection, and a myriad of heartfelt moments that promise to leave you inspired and empowered. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest @elizabeth_gilbert_writer Visit soakingwet.com and use code "COCKTALES” for 10% off Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Picture this: after a whirlwind year of dating, I found myself walking down the aisle, embarking on a marriage that has now spanned a decade. What kept us strong? Accountability, personal growth, and a knack for making conscious relationship decisions. This episode kicks off with a deep dive into being single and the importance of self-awareness before plunging into the dating pool. We even share a delightful cocktail recipe, Miss Rosa's Margarita, ensuring you get your rose water from the kitchen, not the bathroom cabinet! Bringing laughter and insight to our discussions, comedian Mario Tory joins us to share his vibrant perspective on marriage, family life, and the everyday comedy that comes with raising kids. We explore the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges in maintaining a marriage, laced with the joy and humor that Mario brings to his Atlanta life. And let's not forget the lighter side of parenting—whether you're an active aunt or uncle, or navigating the complexities of blended family dynamics, there's plenty of food for thought and giggles along the way. Ever wondered how personal grooming quirks or the infamous "icks" play into dating and relationships? We tackle these topics head-on, from the societal pressures of appearance to the humorous realities of dating surprises. We dive into the world of fantasies, societal expectations, and the importance of finding a partner who shares your adventurous spirit. And in a candid twist, we even offer some sex advice and tips on rebooting relationships, sprinkled with wild adventures that remind us of the thrills of keeping romance alive. So grab your Miss Rosa's Margarita and join us on this journey of laughter, love, and the realities of relationships. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Kicking things off with a cocktail that’s bound to be the talk of your Thanksgiving table, we give you the Thankful Margarita, a festive blend of tequila, Grand Marnier, lime juice, simple syrup, and a splash of Prosecco. Meanwhile, Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe catch up on their eventful Thursdays, sharing tales of meetings, dinner outings, and a few memorable chaotic situations! Whether it's the sharp-tongued humor of a niece or the surprising demands of being a dog mom, the importance of humor and open communication weaves through each story, offering a lighthearted look at the chaos and joy of everyday interactions. The episode takes a whimsical turn as we imagine eyebrow aesthetics and brainstorm fashion innovations like glasses that don’t smudge makeup. From quirky dog stories to the transformative power of sexual escapades, it’s a whirlwind of topics wrapped in humor and reflection. Whether you're tuning in for laughs, insights into relationship dynamics, an escape from what's going in America after the election, or just a fresh perspective on life's adventures, this episode promises a delightful mix that’s sure to entertain and inspire. So, grab your Thankful Margarita, sit back, and let us take you on a journey through the vibrant tapestry of life’s many facets. Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for a special discount! Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in ICosta Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Not all is sugar and spice; we dip our toes into serious waters with discussions on relationship fears and challenges. From navigating love's rocky terrain to addressing toxic friendships, we open up about personal insecurities and the importance of open communication. Whether it's confronting a partner's hidden truths or grappling with commitment fears, the essence is finding authenticity in relationships. And for those puzzling over friendship dilemmas or toxic ties, we've got anecdotes, advice, and a touch of humor to guide you through. So, pour yourself a glass of Pennywise Punch and join us for this heartfelt, laughter-filled journey. We've brewed up this delightful cocktail, "Pennywise Punch", with vanilla vodka and white chocolate liqueur, perfect for those seeking a spirited affair this spooky season. Grab your cocktail shaker as we share some tips for crafting this drink, including creative twists for our lactose-intolerant friends. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Pre-Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch (Next Drop Arrives December 2024) www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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This week Kemi Nekvapil joins us and schools on the gift of asking. Asking for help is a vital skill that many people struggle with, often due to the fear of appearing weak or being a burden to others. In this episode Kemi Nekvapil, the author of The Gift of Asking, discusses this in depth, highlighting the emotional and psychological barriers that prevent individuals from reaching out for support. Follow our guest: @keminekvapil Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- October's Book- The Stillwater Girls https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we had the pleasure of hosting Shahem Mclaurin, a licensed therapist and social worker who focuses on trauma and patriarchy-impacted individuals. Shahem shared his expertise on the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, explaining how societal norms that center around men can be harmful to everyone. He emphasized the importance of emotional attunement and the ability to fully feel and process one's emotions. We discussed the challenges men face in seeking therapy and the common criticisms Shahem encounters in his work, particularly from men who feel that women are not held accountable in the same way. Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales and use code COCKTALES! Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALES Follow our guest: @5hahem Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean We're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert. Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking Here Join Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.com Murder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/ For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Follow Us @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Join Us On Our Travels: Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/ Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/ Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here! Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.