Anger Secrets

Do you feel you and your partner speak different languages when it comes to love and affection? Or perhaps you and your partner struggle to understand each other's needs and desires. Or maybe you've heard about the 5 Love Languages idea before but aren't quite sure how to apply it in your relationship. If any of these situations sound familiar, this episode is for you! In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs delves into the concept of the 5 love languages. The episode explores what the 5 love languages are and provides 5 practical tips for applying the 5 love languages to strengthen your relationship. Alastair also offers additional resources on his website, angersecrets.com, for those needing further assistance in controlling their anger and improving their relationships. Key Takeaways Identify Love Languages: Discover the primary love language for both you and your partner, using tools like the Love Languages quiz or honest conversations. Speak Their Language: Learn how expressing love in your partner's preferred language strengthens bonds and enhances intimacy. Recognise Triggers: Understand what actions may unintentionally make your partner feel unloved, and how to avoid them. Deescalate Conflicts: Use love languages strategically during disagreements to promote reconciliation and maintain connection. Adapt and Evolve: Love languages are not static—continuously check in with each other to adapt as your relationship grows and changes. Resources Mentioned angersecrets.com – Explore a variety of free resources to enhance your emotional control and relationship skills Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction 01:40 What Are the Five Love Languages? 02:17 Words of Affirmation 02:38 Acts of Service 03:04 Receiving Gifts 03:27 Quality Time 03:50 Physical Touch 04:05 Importance of Understanding Love Languages 04:24 Practical Tips for Applying Love Languages 07:04 Conclusion

Are you fed up with losing your temper with the people you love most? Do you recognise that you need help managing your anger but need help figuring out where to start? Or perhaps you're painfully aware of the devastating consequences your anger has caused, yet you can't find the motivation to change. If any of this resonates with you, then this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast is what you need. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs delves into the profound journey of Colin, a 38-year-old father who faced the devastating consequences of uncontrolled anger. After losing his marriage due to his anger issues, Colin took a transformative step by enrolling in the Complete Anger Management System. Colin's story highlights the importance of addressing anger issues before it's too late and showcases the powerful changes he has made through the program, not only for himself but also for his children. Listen in to be inspired by Colin's commitment to breaking the cycle of anger and paving the way for a healthier, happier future. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to seek help and start making positive changes. Key Takeaways Understanding the Impact of Delayed Help: Recognise the far-reaching consequences of postponing anger management. Colin's Commitment to Change: An inspiring example of personal accountability and a drive to create a better environment for his children. Breaking the Cycle: Practical steps and insights into altering the destructive patterns of anger within families. Resources Mentioned The Complete Anger Management System: Discover the program Colin enrolled in to start his journey of change. Visit angersecrets.com/course for more details Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction 00:29 Meet Colin: A Story of Anger and Loss 01:05 The Turning Point: Seeking Help 02:03 Colin's Journey: From Realization to Action 03:30 The Anger Management Course: Tools and Techniques 08:29 Breaking the Cycle: A New Beginning 12:01 Conclusion

Do you often feel trapped in the same patterns of conflict with your partner? Have you noticed that your relationship sometimes feels like a game in which someone always blames, rescues, or feels like the victim? Do you want to break free from toxic relationship dynamics and create a calmer, happier and more understanding relationship? If you have answered "Yes" to any of these questions, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs introduces the Winner’s Triangle, a powerful model created by Australian psychologist AC Choi, as a solution to break free from the Drama Triangle. Alastair details how the Winner's Triangle's three roles—Assertive, Vulnerable and Caring—contrast with the negative roles of Persecutor, Victim and Rescuer in the Drama Triangle. Throughout the episode, Alastair provides practical examples and guidance on how to shift roles effectively to foster healthier, more respectful communication. This episode encourages listeners to practice these roles to transform their relationships and promotes resources. For further support on anger management visit at AngerSecrets.com. Key Takeaways Understanding the three roles of the Winner's Triangle: Assertive, Vulnerable and Caring. How to identify when you're falling into the Drama Triangle roles and strategies to shift into the healthier roles of the Winner's Triangle. Practical examples of how to apply the Winner's Triangle in everyday situations to improve relationship dynamics. Resources Mentioned Visit angersecrets.com Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction: Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Patterns 00:31 Welcome to the Anger Secrets Podcast 01:28 Introducing the Winner's Triangle 02:38 Understanding the Roles in the Winner's Triangle 05:20 Applying the Winner's Triangle in Your Relationship 06:57 Example: Using the Winner's Triangle in Everyday Situations 08:35 Conclusion

Are you tired of being stuck in the same argument again and again? Do you feel like you're caught in a never-ending cycle of drama, conflict, and emotional chaos in your relationship? Are you ready to break free from toxic relationship dynamics and take your relationship to a new level of understanding and respect? If you have answered "Yes" to any of these questions, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs introduces listeners to the Drama Triangle, a model developed by Stephen Karpman that explains the toxic dynamics in many relationships. Alastair dives into the three key roles within the triangle—the Persecutor, the Victim and the Rescuer—and explains how individuals can break free from these unhealthy patterns to create happier and more loving relationships. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone feeling trapped in a cycle of conflict, blame and emotional chaos. Alastair also offers personal support through his website, AngerSecrets.com, where listeners can book a free 30-minute anger assessment call. Key Takeaways: Understand the Drama Triangle and its three roles: Persecutor, Victim and Rescuer. Recognise the Drama Triangle patterns and how they fuel conflict in relationships. Learn strategies to step away from these roles for healthier interactions. Gain insights on creating calmer, more respectful and successful relationships by breaking free from the Drama Triangle. Resources Mentioned: Visit angersecrets.com Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training Time Stamps 00:00 Introduction: Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Dynamics 00:30 Welcome to the Anger Secrets Podcast 01:24 Understanding the Drama Triangle 02:57 The Persecutor Role 04:06 The Victim Role 05:16 The Rescuer Role 06:09 Switching Roles in the Drama Triangle 07:34 Illustrating the Drama Triangle: John and Mary 09:11 Breaking Free from the Drama Triangle 10:23 Conclusion

In Episode 101 of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs explores the critical role of self-awareness in anger management. Self-awareness is the foundation of controlling your anger and making thoughtful decisions, and today's discussion spotlights three transformative tips to enhance this skill. From recognising the subtle signals your body sends during early agitation to understanding personal anger triggers, these insights are designed to empower you to take charge of your reactions. Join us as we unravel practical strategies to transform anger into opportunities for growth and create more harmonious interactions in your daily life. Key Takeaways: Tip 1: Observe Your Early Warning Signs of Anger - Identifying these subtle cues can help prevent escalation. Tip 2: Slow Down - Pausing allows you to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. Tip 3: Get To Know Your Anger Triggers - Understanding your triggers empowers you to manage your emotions more effectively. Resources Mentioned Book a FREE 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:26 The Importance of Self-Awareness 01:12 Welcome to the Anger Secrets Podcast 02:18 Building Self-Awareness to Control Anger 02:55 Tip 1: Observe Early Warning Signs 04:21 Tip 2: Slow Down 05:39 Tip 3: Know Your Anger Triggers 07:31 Conclusion

Welcome to the milestone 100th episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast! In this special episode, host Alastair Duhs reflects on the journey of creating valuable anger management content over the past two years. Known for providing practical anger management strategies, this podcast is all about inspiring you with real-life success stories from individuals who have conquered their anger through Alastair's comprehensive course, the Complete Anger Management System. Tune in to learn how profound change is not only possible but within your reach. Key Takeaways: Transformational Journeys: Hear from past clients about how the Complete Anger Management System helped them turn their lives around, helping them to achieving calmer, happier and more peaceful lives. Inspiration and Hope: Discover how effective anger management tools can help you create a more peaceful and loving life. Beyond the Podcast: Understand the purposes of the podcast versus the deeper transformation through the Complete Anger Management System. Resources Mentioned: Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call at angersecrets.com/free-call Watch a free anger management training at angersecrets.com/training. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:29 The Journey of the Anger Secrets Podcast 01:34 Introducing the Complete Anger Management System 02:17 Real-Life Success Stories 04:33 Client Testimonials 09:20 Conclusion

Relationships are challenging, especially when you are trying to balance work, family, and personal well-being. If you’re like many of the thousands of men I’ve worked with, you might sometimes feel overwhelmed or uncertain about how to maintain a healthy, healthy and loving relationship. The good news is however, there are some simple and practical strategies you can use to strengthen your connection with your partner, reduce conflict, and create a more happier, more loving and fulfilling relationship. In today’s episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, we dive into the heart of what makes relationships thrive – communication, connection, and commitment. Whether you're facing challenges in your partnership or simply looking to enhance your bond, these five actionable tips are designed to help you cultivate a deeper understanding and appreciation of your partner. Key Takeaways: Take Responsibility for Your Actions: Understanding the impact of your behaviour can transform the dynamics of your relationship. Communicate, Don’t Assume: Clear communication is the cornerstone of effective relationships. Discover how to foster open dialogue with your partner. Listen to Understand, Not to Respond: Learn the art of active listening to create a more empathetic and supportive environment. Make Time for Your Partner: Explore the importance of prioritising quality moments together to nurture your connection. Think "What Is Important Long-Term?": Shift your focus from petty disagreements to the bigger picture of your lifelong happiness together. Featured Clients: Hear inspiring stories from clients like John and Tom, who implemented these strategies to overcome obstacles in their relationships, leading to remarkable transformations. Resources Mentioned: Visit angersecrets.com for free resources on emotional management and relationship enhancement. Sign up for the free training on the top three secrets to control your anger: angersecrets.com/training. Join Us! If you found these insights valuable, share this episode with friends and loved ones who might benefit, and don't forget to leave a rating and review! Remember: You have the power to shape your relationships. Tune in next week as we explore more secrets to fostering love and connection. Take care, and see you in the next episode!

Do you find yourself getting angry more often than you'd like? Or perhaps you lose you temper at those that you love, and know that if things don't change, you may lose the people that matter the most to you? If so, you’re not alone. In today’s episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, we dive deep into the complexities of anger and how it affects our daily lives. Join us as we tackle five critical questions that many struggle with, delivering practical advice and personal anecdotes that resonate with anyone seeking to understand and manage their anger. Key Topics Discussed: What is Anger? – We define anger and explore its various facets and triggers. Why Do We Get Angry? – Delve into the psychological and emotional reasons behind our anger responses. Is Anger Always a Bad Thing? – Understand the potential benefits of anger when it’s managed effectively. How Can I Tell If I Have an Anger Issue? – Learn the warning signs that indicate you may need to take action regarding your anger. How Can I Control My Anger? – Discover various strategies, including our transformative online coaching program, The Complete Anger Management System, that can help you manage your anger and live a more peaceful life. Featured Client Success Story: Hear about Anna's journey from struggling with her temper to gaining control over her emotions, showcasing the effectiveness of structured anger management strategies. Resources Mentioned: Explore free resources and training available at angersecrets.com. Sign up for our free training on the top 3 secrets to control your anger at angersecrets.com/training. Closing Thoughts: Anger management is a skill that takes time and practice, but the rewards are invaluable. Don’t wait to take charge of your emotions and improve your relationships. Follow Us: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please subscribe, rate, and share this podcast with someone who could benefit from these insights. Thank you for listening, and remember, your journey to controlling anger starts now!

Does it ever feel like your anger takes over before you have time to think? Or perhaps you struggle to stay calm when someone pushes your buttons, only to regret your actions later? If either of these scenarios sounds familiar, this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast is for you. In this episode, we delve into the often-misunderstood emotion of anger and explore effective strategies for managing it in the heat of the moment. Join us as we share real-life stories that illustrate how awareness and perspective can transform your interactions, creating healthier relationships both at home and in the workplace. Key Takeaways: Awareness of Anger: Learn to identify the early warning signs of rising anger and how this awareness can empower you to respond more thoughtfully. Questioning Your Anger: Discover the game-changing question that can help you pause and consider whether your anger is truly warranted in any given situation. Empathy and Understanding: Understand the importance of recognising the struggles of others and how this perspective can soften your reactions and foster compassion. Featured Stories: Hear how Mark transformed his marriage by recognising his anger triggers and choosing empathy over resentment. Learn from Sarah's experience in the workplace, where a simple shift in mindset led to more constructive conversations with her colleagues. Resources Mentioned: For more tips and tools to manage your anger, visit angersecrets.com. Sign up for our free training on the top 3 secrets to control your anger at angersecrets.com/training. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a rating, and share this episode with anyone who could benefit from learning how to manage their anger more effectively. Together, we can take steps towards mastering our anger and creating calmer, happier and more loving relationships.

Have you ever felt offended by something that someone said or did, even if it wasn't intentionally meant to hurt you? Do you find yourself dwelling on negative comments or situations, and struggle to let them go? Is it difficult for you to differentiate between constructive criticism and personal attacks in your interactions with others? If so, then this compelling episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast is for you! Join us as we explore how your reactions to criticism can shape your relationships and personal growth. We share compelling stories from clients like Sarah and James, who transformed their responses to perceived attacks into opportunities for connection and understanding. Discover the importance of stepping back when you feel criticized and assessing whether the feedback holds any truth. We also introduce strategies for effectively acknowledging criticism while maintaining your self-esteem. Learn how to embrace constructive feedback as a pathway to improvement rather than a threat. By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with practical tools to diffuse potential conflicts and foster healthier communication in your relationships. Key Takeaways: -Understanding the emotional triggers behind taking things personally -Practical examples demonstrating effective responses to criticism -Strategies for personal growth through acknowledging feedback -Tips for creating a supportive environment that encourages open dialogue Resources Mentioned: Visit angersecrets.com for free resources on managing anger and enhancing communication. Sign up for our free training on the top 3 secrets to control your anger at angersecrets.com/training. Call to Action: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with friends and family who could benefit from improving their communication skills. Remember, change takes time—be patient with yourself as you implement these strategies!

Have you thought about doing an anger management course, but worried that you won't make any changes? Or maybe you've thought: Even if I do learn how to control my anger in the short term, these changes won't last long term? If you can relate to these concerns, then you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs talk to Michael, a 78-year-old retiree who completed an online anger management program 18 months ago. The episode delves into Michael's significant changes in managing anger, particularly with his family, and whether these changes have been sustainable. Michael discusses his journey, the realisations he made about his anger, the improvements in his relationships and the ongoing effort required for long-term change. This episode aims to show that long-term transformation in anger management is achievable and can significantly improve your life and relationships. Key Takeaways: The Power of CommitmentReal-Life ImpactNon-Threatening ApproachOngoing Tools Resources Mentioned: Anger Secrets Websiteangersecrets.com Time stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:33 Meet Michael: A Success Story 01:19 Episode Introduction 02:37 Michael's Journey 04:05 Key Learnings and Changes 07:52 Impact on Relationships 09:22 Advice for Others Facing Anger Issues 12:26 Conclusion

Are you tired of letting anger control your life? Has someone told you that your temper is getting out of control? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs uncovers the Ten Rules of Anger Management that can transform your life. From understanding the key to managing anger to recognising when to seek professional help, Alastair provides a comprehensive guide to conquering anger and enhancing your relationships. Here are some of the key topics discussed in this episode: Taking Responsibility for Your Actions: Admitting when you've allowed anger to control your actions can build trust and respect in relationships, fostering more constructive communication. Using the Tension Scale: Learn to monitor your stress levels and recognize signs of increasing tension to prevent anger from escalating. Seeking to Understand, Not to Win: Shift your focus from winning arguments to empathetically understanding your partner's perspective for healthier communication. Practicing Listening Skills: Effective communication involves active listening. Discover techniques to give your partner your full attention and prevent misunderstandings. Seeking Professional Help if Needed: Recognise when it's time to seek the aid of a professional to address significant anger issues and create a calmer, happier life. Resources Mentioned: AngerSecrets.comAngerSecrets.com/free-call Listener Action Items: AngerSecrets.com Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:23 Overview of the Episode 00:34 Meet Your Host: Alister Dues 01:28 Rule 1: Awareness is Key 02:24 Rule 2: You Create Your Anger 03:21 Rule 3: Anger vs. Abuse and Violence 04:17 Rule 4: Anger Does Not Help 05:16 Rule 5: Change Yourself, Not Others 05:54 Rule 6: Take Responsibility for Your Actions 06:46 Rule 7: Use the Tension Scale 07:34 Rule 8: Seek to Understand, Not to Win 08:16 Rule 9: Practice Listening Skills 09:01 Rule 10: Seek Professional Help if Needed 09:46 Recap and Final Thoughts Tune in to this episode to master your emotions, enhance your relationships, and lead a happier, more fulfilling life!

Can just six hours a week transform your relationship? According to relationship expert Dr. John Gottman, the answer is "Yes". In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs reveals the transformative power of Dr. John Gottman's "Magic Six Hours." Learn how dedicating just six hours a week can significantly enhance your relationship, bringing more happiness, love, and fulfillment into your life. The seven essential steps to implement the Magic Six Hours are as follows: PartingsReunionsAppreciation / AdmirationPhysical AffectionStress-Reducing ConversationQuality TimeState of the Union Meeting Key strategies discussed in this episode include creating a meaningful morning and evening routine, actively listening during stress-reducing conversations, and setting aside dedicated quality time with your partner. Resources Mentioned: AngerSecrets.comAngerSecrets.com/free-call Listener Action Items: AngerSecrets.com Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:46 The Magic Six Hours 02:43 Step 1: Meaningful Partings 03:42 Step 2: Reconnecting Reunions 04:26 Step 3: Daily Appreciation and Admiration 05:26 Step 4: Regular Physical Affection 06:17 Step 5: Stress-Reducing Conversations 06:54 Step 6: Quality Time Together 07:47 Step 7: Weekly State of the Union Meetings 08:51 Conclusion and Recap By incorporating these seven steps into your weekly routine, you'll build a stronger, more connected relationship. Don’t miss out - tune in and transform your relationship with the Magic Six Hours!

Are you tired of feeling angry all the time? Do you find it hard to let go of your anger, even when it hurts you and those around you? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs reveals three powerful mindset shifts to help you let go of your anger and find more peace. Alastair dives deep into the psychological strategies that can transform your response to anger, leading to a calmer and happier life. These mindset shifts include: Practice AcceptancePractice EmpathyMaintain a Sense of Perspective Alastair explains how adopting these strategies can help you navigate conflicts more effectively, reduce stress, and foster better relationships. Resources Mentioned: AngerSecrets.comAngerSecrets.com/free-call Listener Action Items: AngerSecrets.com Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:46 Mindset Shift 1: Practice Acceptance 03:27 Mindset Shift 2: Practice Empathy 05:11 Mindset Shift 3: Maintain a Sense of Perspective 06:50 Recap and Final Thoughts

Are you tired of constant arguments in your relationship? Do you feel like you and your partner are never on the same page? Do you wish you could communicate more effectively and improve your relationship? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs delves into practical strategies for becoming a better listener in your relationships. Alastair outlines four essential steps to enhance your listening skills and foster healthier, more meaningful communication with your partner. These steps include: Using Minimal EncouragersAsking QuestionsReflecting (or Summarising)Giving Positive Feedback Key strategies discussed in this episode to improve listening skills include practicing active listening, asking open-ended questions, reflecting on your partner's words, and providing positive feedback to foster deeper connections. Resources Mentioned: AngerSecrets.comAngerSecrets.com/free-call Listener Action Items: AngerSecrets.com Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:28 Step 1: Use Minimal Encouragers 02:41 Step 2: Ask Questions 04:36 Step 3: Reflect or Summarise 06:01 Step 4: Give Positive Feedback 07:27 Recap and Final Thoughts

In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses how to control your anger in 30 days or less. Alastairs shares three critical steps to manage anger, including short and long-term strategies for controlling anger and how to build a healthier relationship. Additionally, Alastair highlights success stories from individuals who have transformed their lives through his online anger management program. Key strategies mentioned in this episode to control anger include recognising and managing your Early Warning Signs of anger, using Cognitive Restructuring to change thought patterns and developing effective communication skills. Success Stories: Jack:Sarah: Resources Mentioned: AngerSecrets.comAngerSecrets.com/free-call Listener Action Items: AngerSecrets.com Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:24 Understanding Anger: The First Step 01:57 Recognising Early Warning Signs 02:54 Techniques for Short-Term Anger Control 03:51 Long-Term Strategies for Anger Management 05:19 Building Better Relationships 06:57 Success Stories: Real-Life Transformations 09:16 Conclusion: Recap and Final Thoughts

Do you and your partner argue with each other frequently? Is your relationship lacking in communication and understanding? Are you and your partner drifting apart and you don't know how to stop it? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, in this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs dives into three powerful steps to enhance your relationship: addressing anger issues, improving communication skills, and implementing Dr. John Gottman's "Magic Six Hours." Tune in to learn practical tips, habits, and insights that can lead to a stronger, healthier, and happier relationship. Free Resources: Explore a range of resources to help you control your anger and improve your relationships. Book a free 30-minute anger assessment call to discuss your specific situation. Visit our website at angersecrets.com for more details. Time Stamps: -00:00 Introduction to Anger Management -01:11 Understanding Mindfulness -01:55 Benefits of Mindfulness for Anger -03:45 Exercise 1: Deep Breathing -05:28 Exercise 2: Body Scan Meditation -07:50 Exercise 3: Mindful Observation -09:24 Conclusion and Next Steps

Do you struggle to control your anger? Have you tried to control your anger but still feel overwhelmed and out of control? Do you want to learn practical exercises based on the principles of mindfulness to help you control your temper ? If you answered "Yes to any of these questions, in today's episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs describes into three powerful mindfulness exercises designed to help you manage anger more effectively. From deep breathing techniques to mindful observation, these exercises are practical tools you can use anytime, anywhere. But remember, professional guidance is essential for long-term anger management! Tune in and take the first step towards a calmer, more controlled you! Free Resources: Visit angersecrets.com for a range of free resources tailored to help you control your anger. Whether it's a free assessment call or downloadable guides, you'll find valuable tools to support your journey towards effective anger management. Time Stamps: -0:00 Introduction to Anger Management -01:11 Understanding Mindfulness -01:55 Benefits of Mindfulness for Anger Management -03:45 Exercise 1: Deep Breathing -05:28 Exercise 2: Body Scan Meditation -07:50 Exercise 3: Mindful Observation 09:24 Conclusion and Next Steps

Do you lose your temper at those closest to you? Are your angry outbursts leaving you feeling lonely, isolated and ashamed? Have you Googled "how to control my anger" too many times to admit and are still confused about your best anger management option? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, in this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast host Alastair Duhs dives into the debate: "Should I do a face-to-face or online anger management program?" Discover firsthand experiences from Alastair's clients and explore recent research that highlights the effectiveness of online programs. Learn how these programs can fit seamlessly into your busy schedule and provide you with the tools you need to create calmer, happier relationships. Resources: For additional support and to take the first step towards better anger management, check out these resources: -Free training on how to control your anger: angersecrets.com/training -Comprehensive online anger management program: The Complete Anger Management System Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction: Do You Struggle with Anger? 00:26 Welcome to the Anger Secrets Podcast 01:09 Face-to-Face Anger Management Programs 02:58 Online Anger Management Programs 04:35 Comparing Effectiveness: Face-to-Face vs. Online 06:19 Client Testimonials on Online Programs 07:59 Final Thoughts and Recommendations 09:17 Conclusion and Next Steps

Do you struggle to control your anger? Have you gone to anger management counseling or therapy sessions but still lose your temper in stressful situations? Do you want to learn how to effectively control your anger and improve your relationships with others? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs dives deep into the pitfalls that can hinder your progress in managing anger and provides actionable tips to navigate these challenges. From not recognising your Early Warning Signs of Anger to reframing Negative Self-Talk, Alastair covers it all. Whether you're struggling with anger management or looking to refine your strategies, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Free Resources: Unlock a treasure trove of resources to help you manage your anger by visiting angersecrets.com. Download free guides, access online tools, and even book a complimentary 30-minute anger assessment call. Take the first step towards a calmer, more controlled you! Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction: Struggling with Anger? 00:26 Meet Your Host: Alastair Duhs 01:01 The Journey to Controlling Anger 02:24 Common Mistake 1: Ignoring the Root Cause 03:46 Common Mistake 2: Suppressing Anger 04:37 Common Mistake 3: Blaming Others 05:29 Common Mistake 4: Missing Early Warning Signs 06:14 Common Mistake 5: Negative Self-Talk 07:28 Common Mistake 6: Unrealistic Expectations 08:34 Common Mistake 7: Not Seeking Help 09:50 Conclusion and Recap 10:27 Final Thoughts and Resources