The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

What would you do if your dream date or soul mate turns out to be a swinger? Duck and run? Or embrace the challenge? Join us with Tori and Steve, hosts of Swingology a Lifestyle Podcast, who got married at Hedonism II in Jamaica, as they share their love story and their journey into the swinging lifestyle together. Find out how Tori navigated this new open-minded world and evolved to hosting their own Podcast for swingers. Swingology A Lifestyle Podcast About Listen in and Stimulate Your Mind as we explore the ethical non-monogamy community, break taboos and share real-life stories. Welcome to our podcast, your go-to source for tips and advice from experts, specialists, and individuals who live and love beyond traditional boundaries. Together we explore the depths of human connection and discover how to navigate the complexities and joys of these unique relationships. Whether you're just curious about swinging or already have an open relationship our insightful podcast will educate, inspire, and entertain you. Tune in to Stimulate Your Mind. Connect with us! Email: SwingologyPodcast@gmail.com Online: https://theSwingology.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingologyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Swingology_Podcast Merch: https://www.etsy.com/shop/swingologyshop All Video and Audio content is owned by and is not to be replicated or translated without express written consent of Tori Kist • 2025

Sometimes, do you feel like your relationship is a balancing act with plates spinning in the air and you’re just waiting for them to come crashing down all at once? Join Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy as she chats with Brianna Carey from Intimacy Evolution Podcast, all about how to evolve your relationship and add real balance to your sex-life, your love- life and your family-life by understanding intimacy and connecting deeply with yourself and your partner. Guest: Brianna Carey Bio With over 16 years of experience as a sexual health educator, Brianna is a certified Relationship and Intimacy coach, as well as the co-host of the Intimacy Evolution Podcast. Specializing in working with women ready to reclaim their pleasure and couples seeking to deepen their connection and intimacy, Brianna shares a personal journey of overcoming vulvar pain post-pregnancy, which ignited her passion to support others facing similar challenges. Her dedication led her to obtain a sex and relationship coaching certification from Sex & Love Co in 2022. If you're on a journey towards parenthood or wish to enhance intimacy and fulfillment in your relationship, Brianna is here to guide you on exploring desires and expressions of intimacy. Connect with Brianna to revitalize your intimate connection and embark on a journey of pleasure and fulfillment. https://www.intimacyevolution.com/podcast Intimacy evolves over time. Whether it's a long-term relationship, pregnancy/postpartum, surgery, or life experiences, intimacy looks different. But how do you communicate that with your partner? Join Brianna & Mark Carey, a wife & husband duo, as they discuss desire, intimacy and how to embrace the changes within your relationship. They share from their experiences, have guest interviews to bring new tips & perspectives on how to be intentional with the attention you give your relationship

Do you ever wonder if sex is the same for everyone -- every generation? every age? all around the world? Join us with Sex Researcher, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of “Tell Me What You Want” as he explains how sex and relationships differ with the various generations from Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, and Boomers.​ From gender identity to non-monogamy and interest in kink, we discuss differences in human sexuality through the ages and around the world. We also touch on how masturbation helps symptomatic menopausal women. GUEST: Dr. Justin Lehmiller BIO Justin J. Lehmiller is an American social psychologist and author. He is a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. Lehmiller has authored books such as Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life and The Psychology of Human Sexuality. He has appeared on several television programs to discuss his research and the science of sex. He maintains the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast.

Are you struggling to make peace with your past? Is there something from your childhood memories that you can’t seem to shake off that is affecting your sex life today? Join us with Erotic Film Director, Inka Winters, of ForPlay Films, as she shares her stories about how her successful career creating pleasure-based feminine porn that represents how she believes sex should be between consenting adults, is a way of righting the wrongs of the past. Focusing on chemistry, consent and autonomy, Inka’s film work helps her to overcome incredible sexual trauma that started at a very young age in a sex cult commune. GUEST: Inka Winter BIO Inka Winter is a Sex & Relationship Counselor, Educator and Director of Ethical, Feminist Erotica by Women for Women. Inka’s passion for working with desire and arousal grew out of her own experience with losing her libido for over a year due to trauma. She founded ForPlay Films out of her desire to help women (inclusive of cis, trans, genderqueer) with arousal by catering to their needs and their sexuality rather than the male perspective that is prevalent in erotic films. But her desire to bring sexual healing to women didn’t end with providing sensual films. She also channeled her experience with mindfulness and her counseling training into a new form of arousal coaching. And while women are her focus, she also works with men that experience challenges in the bedroom or that want to get more in touch with their sensuality. At ForPlay Films Inka directs ethical, feminist erotica by women, for women. Inka Winter’s social activism is rooted in changing existing repressive social norms that cause harm to individuals and subsequently society at large. She believes that porn heavily influences, amongst other things, perspectives on sexuality, gender norms and women. With her erotic films, she wants to change these perspectives to be more feminist in order to create a more consensual and sexually liberated world.

Do you think the swinging lifestyle is the same down-under? Perhaps the upside-down pineapple is the right side up in Australia. Join us from location on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel chatting with Corina and Bob, owners of Australia Swingers Cruise, all about how the lifestyle in Australia encourages sexy travel adventures just like we do in North America. The similarities suggest a universal community of open-minded people from both ends of the earth.

In our lives, external events often stop us from becoming the best version of ourselves and sometimes make us feel stuck, hoping for a way to rise above. Wouldn’t it be great if we could take our own steps to change our destiny when it comes to money, love and health? Join us with Energy Coach Aasha T, author of The Empath is The Narcissist, as she shares how she has guided thousands of people back to their unique soul vibes and confidence in order to attract those things that are missing in life, including deeper love, better sex, more meaningful purpose and mindful health by opening your heart to abundance in all areas of your being. GUEST - AASHA T LACOUNT BIO Aasha T. is an ISEI Certified Emotional & Energetic Intelligence Master and Divine Polarity Guide for High achievers. She blends the art and understanding of Feminine & Masculine dynamics into her work to create wealth, beauty and pure love through confidence to be FULLY expressed in all areas of life. Aasha underwent severe trauma in just the last 4 years as she was called into her Energy Work. She blends ancient modalities with a cool, down-to-earth approach to healing trauma. An ITTI Certified PTSD & Attachment Theory Certified Coach, she re-wrote the theories with the understanding of DNA and Feminine & Masculine Energy. She is a Shaman, a Quantum Healer and a Hypnotherapist and the Author of The Empath is the Narcissist. Her Community is for ALL people ready to clear deep-rooted pain and claim their birthright of truth, whatever that flavor looks like for them! In this place, manifestation happens FAST. Having cured her cancer, overactive thyroid and going from homeless to the beaches of Malibu in just 1 year, she is an embodiment of her Method. She is also a Roller skating Mermaid and a Mumma to an epic son, Levi.

Are you interested in or curious about swinging or non-monogamy, but unsure how to bring it up to your partner? Are you wondering if the Swinging Lifestyle is right for you and your partner? Join us for our 8th anniversary episode with Relationship Coach, Lauren Hayes, author of For Better and Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-monogamist, as we review her book from the inside out, each lesson bringing its own dimension to the discussion of: Would we? Could we? Should we? GUEST: Lauren Hayes Lauren Hayes is relationship coach specializing in supporting ethically non-monogamous (ENM) couples, including swingers and the ENM-curious. Trained in both life and relationship coaching, she helps couples navigate and engage the swinging and non-monogamous community in the healthiest of ways. She holds the perspective that non-monogamous relationships share the same foundations of any healthy relationship, however, they need to operate at a higher level of health to accommodate the additional complexities. Her approach aims to help couples build their ideal relationship, regardless of whether or how many others it includes. She also brings personal experience to her coaching having been married for 19+ years and ENM (swingers) for the last 6+ years. She offers coaching and practical advice grounded in her own life as well as professional training - she goes by Swinging Lifestyle Coach and her website is SwingingLifestyleCoach.com. Website: https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0Ew Podcast: https://pod.link/1767688018

Are you feeling somewhat disconnected from yourself and your body? Have you recently gone through a serious break-up, relationship decline or simply feeling a little down and vulnerable, making you push your needs and desires to the back burner? Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Sarah Campbell, from MeB4We.ca, as we talk about how to reconnect with your intimate sexy self and reclaim your pleasure and confidence fast. Through focused coaching techniques that empower and identify target issues like low libido, body confidence, sexual inhibition, orgasmic exploration, and communication breakdowns in relationships, Sarah can help you reignite your spark and create the pleasure filled life you deserve.

Are you thinking about opening up your relationship when it comes to sex? Are you considering sharing your sexy experiences with other open-minded couples? Or perhaps, you simply want to add some new sexy fantasies into your repertoire and share them with your partner? Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with a seasoned swinger couple as we all have a blast recounting swinger stories, sexy adventures and insight into how to keep your sex-life spicy, naughty and fun!

Do you ever wonder how single guys survive and thrive in The Lifestyle? How do they navigate the rules and expectations in a world of couples where women are empowered to drive the situation? Join us with Topless Travel Host, George, a single man in The Lifestyle, on The Bliss Cruise with 6000 open-minded guests as we get into the do’s and don’ts, that help make successful encounters with threesomes, fivesomes and orgies. He also shares details of his OnlyFans Account, The Hotwife Hunter, that keeps him busy with content creation.

How do we empower women to take charge of their sexual wellness when the head of governmental policies promotes the exact opposite sentiment? Join us with a Neuroscientist, Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of: Why Good Sex Matters, as she shares her opinions on the future of women’s sexual health and wellness under the newly elected government. From a reduction of reproductive rights to normalizing sexual assault, Dr Nan discusses some of her scary predictions about how women will be affected by the new leadership in America and why it is more important now, than ever before, to focus on pleasure.

Do you ever wonder what kind of perseverance it takes to go from single Mom to Millionaire? The male dominated porn industry has changed so much over the past decade, giving way to some smart, business-savvy female sex workers to rise to the top and make a name for themselves. Join us with Porn Star, Rachel Steele, CEO of Red MLF Productions, as she shares stories of her journey from exploitation to ultimate success as the very first taboo/fetish MILF on the internet. We discover how she navigates the challenges of running a porn production company where she taps into her natural talents as actress, producer, writer, director, set designer, costumer and makeup artist.

Are you looking to experience the sexiest vacation ever? The most erotic and iconic vacations begin with open-minded guests and talented hosts who understand the particular mind-set of people in the Sexy Lifestyle. Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach in Jamaica with Party Marc from Topless Travel as we discuss how he gets the guests to open-up and explore their sexuality through music, games and his unique perspective on life.

What would you do if your partner asked you for a yoni massage? Would you know what to do to turn her on in all her senses… mentally, physical and emotionally? Join us with Yoni Expert, YoniMaster Rick, as we learn everything there is to know about yoni massage. The who, the what, the when, the where, the why and the how, are all so interesting that you’ll want to start your lessons immediately. You can actually change your relationship overnight by making her feel “alive” with erotic massage.

Do you appreciate talented people who can write great erotic stories that help couples spice up their sex lives? Would you consume erotica that encourages playful sexual fantasies with the goal of improving communication, while exploring your own boundaries and limits? Join us with Sexologist and Erotic Writer, Tiffany Chan, who uses her erotic intelligence and sexual knowledge to create content that includes kink education, couples coaching, and erotic writing. Her work is deeply rooted in embodiment, holistic principles, and empowering people to live authentically. GUEST: Tiffany Chan Tiffany Chan is sharing her unique experiences as a Holistic Sexuality Educator (CHSE), Sexologist, Intimacy Consultant and Model/Content Creator in two revealing new posts for her magazines Artistic Edge and Ink & Lavender-My Secret Diary. In Chan’s Artistic Edge article, ”Taking the Leap: How I Became a Kink-Affirming Sex Educator”, has resonated deeply with readers. In this candid piece, Chan recounts her unexpected journey into the field of kink education, highlighting her early experiences with BDSM literature and how these stories influenced her path. She also shares the pivotal moments that led her to embrace her role as a sex educator, emphasizing the importance of consent and the challenges of navigating personal identity within the constraints of societal expectations. Ink & Lavender-My Secret Diary post “The Secret Life of a Content Creator…” pulls back the curtain on the often-misunderstood world of social media influencers. Chan discusses the behind-the-scenes effort required to create the perfect post, the financial realities that come with the territory and the emotional toll of maintaining an online presence. Her transparency offers a refreshing and much-needed perspective on the realities of content creation. "Writing these articles is an incredibly fulfilling experience for me," said Chan. "I’ve always believed that storytelling is a powerful way to connect with others, and these posts have allowed me to explore topics that are deeply personal and important to me. “In ‘Taking the Leap’ I was able to share my unconventional journey into kink-affirming sex education, something that’s been a significant part of my life but isn’t always easy to discuss openly. It was liberating to put those experiences into words and offer insights that I hope will resonate with others who might be on a similar path. “Similarly, with ‘The Secret Life of a Content Creator’, I wanted to shed light on the realities that many people don't see—the hours of work, the creativity and the emotional energy that go into each post. Social media can often feel like a curated highlight reel, but there’s so much more behind the scenes. Being able to express myself creatively through these articles is something I truly cherish, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to engage with readers on such meaningful topics. My hope is that through sharing these stories, others will feel empowered to embrace their own journeys, no matter how unconventional they may be."

Gentlemen, do you ever wake up in the morning after another sleepless night and not recognize the person in the mirror? Perhaps you see less hair, more wrinkles and a bigger waistline and feel sluggish, moody and generally less sexy? Are you wondering if this is just a matter of getting old or could it be something more serious? Join us with Urologist, Dr Judson Brandeis, author of The 21st Century Man, as we dive deep into the symptoms and treatment of andropause (male menopause) and the consequences of declining testosterone levels and the benefits of hormone replacement therapy for men.

Are you the kind of person who loves to party, but also loves to make sure everyone else is having the same great time that you are? Are you open-minded and willing to grow with new experiences including sexual exploration? Join us at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we chat with Sexy Sarah, a new hostess for Topless Travel Events as she experiences her first time at Hedo and also, her first time working with the legendary, Party Marc. We learn about the past experiences that brought her to be selected as the next sexy side-kick to the king of partying. From the sexy pool parties, to the catamaran cruise and all the crazy antics, she shares details of what it’s like to host a Topless Travel event.

Do you feel like you have not reached your sexual potential? Perhaps our cultural ideas about sex and pleasure are affecting your overall health and happiness. Join us with Neuroscientist and Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of Why Good Sex Matters, as she explains scientifically how sexual pleasure affects our wellbeing. She emphasizes that good sex is not just a luxury. It’s not just a cherry on top. Good sex matters. Orgasms matter. Pleasure matters. Take it from a neuroscientist. Check out Nan's new book on Sex: Why Good Sex Matters

Does size matter? For many people, this question brings out a resounding “Hell yes!” And for many penis owners, it’s a matter of length and girth. And for that reason, penis enlargement procedures have become more sought after than ever before. Join us with Dr Joel Pash, CEO of Upsize Clinic, specializing in penile enlargement procedures, as we talk about cosmetic enhancements, injectable fillers, devices, and drugs. We find out which procedures work, which ones are safe and why men want/need them. Whether you have erectile dysfunction, pyrones disease, or just looking for easier and harder erections, the availability of safe and sustainable solutions is real, making this “upsize” industry growing as we speak.